I need help I don't know what to do anymore... So my step daughter hits her bother and sisters. (…
I need help I don't know what to do anymore...
So my step daughter hits her bother and sisters. ( I'm talking about gets on top of them and holds them down and hits them) she gives her sister black eyes all the time. Everybody told me it's just them being sibling and that I was overreacting and I started believing them till yesterday evening we was in the car and she was just talking to lyndon (my daughter and her sister) and lyndon was laughing and talking back, then out of no where lyndon started screaming bloody murder, I pulled the car over and ask aleah what happened and she told me she hit lyndon on the legs (aleah will be 5in dec. and lyndon is 4months) what can I do to make her stop, she also refuses to do anything to do with weighting her name learning abc's or to count... I'm lost
Eternity·
В ожидании первенца
it's time for some kind of discipline especially if she is hurting other kids. learning letters and what not just takes time and a strict set time and no none sense attitude.
noel·
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
she needs a ass whoppin..
8yearsapart·
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (13 нед.)
I'd say involve her biological dad (the hitter isn't your child right?) and develop some consequences together that teach her why hitting is wrong. Giving black eyes is serious and authorities might not buy "the 5 year old did it"...Point out immediately when she gets aggressive with the other kids and explain WHY hitting is wrong. Let her know that there is zero tolerance for violence and that she is on punishment: take toys away, technology away, TV time EVERYTHING that 5 year old enjoys -done, she gets nothing until she controls her hitting behavior. Also, she will need to write the ABCs and her numbers while the other kids get to play and have fun because she has to learn that hitting is not acceptable. Be firm and consistent with the other parent so she knows that you all are serious and also that learning her alphabet and shapes etc isn't an option. You have to take the parental power back. Hope this helps.
Cora·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (36 нед.)
That isn't normal sibling rivalry! Violence of any kind at any age is absolutely NOT ok. There needs to be some major intervention, especially if she's hitting a baby. Have you talked her father about it?
Justina·
Мама двоих (4 года, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
She needs to be evaluated by a behavioral therapist. Tell them what's going on.
Machell·
Kinda sounds like she may have a mood disorder and possibly have ADD. I would talk to her pediatrician they may have you take her to a neuropsychologist to have her tested. I have had to do this with my boys good luck if you have any questions let me know. @lyndon2015
yummycake·
Мама троих детей
in my opinion who gaurdians need to have parenting classes. once the parents are parenting appropriately..they child behavior should become good. if it doesnt u may have to get an evaluation for adhd or bipolar or autism. the not wanting to learn letters is jormal for a child who hasnt had a deciplined upbringing. u need to make sure she has a consistent time alloted with a quiet inviroment to stay at a table and wait it out. she can spend the hour doing nothing or learning. in the end the child will prefer the learning..and her priviledges should only be taken away if given prior notice that certain behavior will have certain consequnces for certain amount of time. it really is related to parenting problems what u r describing.