People say you'll forget your first pregnancy and want to get pregnant again and I 100% disagree. I…
People say you'll forget your first pregnancy and want to get pregnant again and I 100% disagree. I hated my pregnancy and labor. Nothing in me wants to have another child again. I LOVE MY BABY BOY he was worth everything I went through and I wouldn't change anything cause it got me him. But I want my tubes tied cause BC and condoms suck!! I never want to have sex cause BC has dried me up and never lets me in the mood and condoms are so uncomfortable.. But my husband doesn't want me to get that done. Anyone else feel this way? Any advice on how to help with the sex life lol? Did you get over it and eventually want to have another one? Let me just add we've had an amazing sex life and now it's just not how it used to be and I miss it so much lol. Please help me😂😭😅 I rambled I hope this made sense haha
lillian·
Мама дочки (1 год)
+1 the same problem :(
Christina·
Мама сына-младенца
If one child is enough for you then absolutely be done! You'll be able to focus all your energy and love and attention on one lucky kid! :) Also I've heard the sex drive comes back eventually. Totally normal for it to be low right now!
Brittany·
Мама сына-младенца
@ligermama even after 6 months? And thank you!
Christina·
Мама сына-младенца
Yeah, unfortunately. It can take awhile to get back to your regular self. Add in sleep deprivation and stress and it's totally normal! I hope it all works out for you!
Brittany·
Мама сына-младенца
Thank you!! @logermama
Brittany·
Мама сына-младенца
@ligermama, not loger lol
Bee·
В ожидании первенца
I absolutely hate being pregnant right now. The only good part is feeling him move all day but other than that I do not enjoy this experience. I do want one more kid eventually but I'm not looking forward to the 10 months of suffering it comes with so I definitely understand what you are saying. However, I would look more into getting you tubes tied before you make that decision. Apparently there are horrible side effects to it that they don't tell you beforehand. There's one mommy on here that has her story on her page about getting her tubes tied. Long story short she experienced excruciating pain for years and ended having to spend over $6000 dollars to finally get the procedure reversed.
Brittany·
Мама сына-младенца
@mybabyamir, omg no lol and yes the tummy kicks and wiggles were the only good part. And I was in labor for almost 48 hours. It was roughly 40-42 hours I think and I didn't even get to enjoy the emotions w having him cause I was so drugged up. Once it was over I got to but I got sick and was miserable and had a reaction to all the meds to where I scratched my face raw. It was horrible.
Brittany·
Мама сына-младенца
My face. This doesn't even do it justice as to how bad it was.