So me and my boyfriend go to school the same days & once the baby gets here and i get the okay to…
So me and my boyfriend go to school the same days & once the baby gets here and i get the okay to return to school I won't have no one to watch her besides my fathers fiancé. We kind of get along but i know she's GREAT with newborns and my boyfriend doesn't want her to he wants his dad and stepmom to. I've lived with them and I know that's not how i want my baby to be raised or being watched in that environment.... How do i tell him without hurting his feelings):
Erika·
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Be honest I had to do the same with my boyfriend and his parents he was mad at first but then he understood it's what's best for the baby
missing57user·
I would say to take turns to let each other's parents babysit but that's not easy to do when a baby is use to certain ppl
Karinagrace·
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Try telling him that you don't don't want to be dependent on family
Athena 💖·
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@jdrose, yeah it would only be for 2 days out of the week and I don't want my baby there at all with me not there. The house is just dirty and I can't stand that plus roaches and mice i cant risk my daughter getting sick but if it were a good environment i would be very open to that option but oh well/:
missing57user·
oh no that's a definitely no then let yi your baby go to your dads
missing115user·
Мама сына-младенца
Im not comfortable with my fiances family watching my son and I told him while I was still pregnant that I wasn't comfortable with it and that I wouldn't leave my baby with them and he was actually understanding and we came to an agreement about it. You just have to tell him and stand your ground
~~~~~{TEAM ♡ JAYCE}~~~~~·
Мама подростка, беременна (37 нед.)
the school should offer free daycare.
Jessica·
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In addition to taking to him, maybe spend more time with your father's fiancé. He may become for comfortable with her babysitting.