I moved back into my moms house after my bf broke up with me 3 weeks before my due date. He was partially there...he would come get me from my moms house & take me to my appointments and stuff. He was there when the baby was born too. So he came to my moms house to apologize to both of us and said he wants his family back. He is highly in love with his daughter so idk if he wants us to move back to be close to her or actually want his family back. My mom stays an hour away from him. I'm highly confused on whether I should allow it. Mainly cause I don't want him to walk out on us again & end up in the same situation. Any advice ?
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your hormones are all over the place after birth, like seriously. give it a couple of months at least because you need to have emotional support at this time.
exactly... let him prove it. let his actions prove it so history doesn't repeat itself. don't rush anything
Sounds complicated 😣 Did he treat you well before breaking up? Did you guys get along? Sometimes guys get freaked out before the baby comes and they do weird things, only to regret it later. If it just seems like he got spooked, but everything else was great, if consider giving him a second chance. There are so many factors to look into, though. Do you love him and want to have a family together with him still?
I'm sorry u have to go thru that but honestly my opinion is like once a cheater always a cheater or another example once an abuser always a abuser same as once he walks out before u had the baby he can do it again but no matter what ur mom or anyone else saids the decision is yours and it's how YOU feel in ur heart and truly ur the only one who truly knows him. Do what makes u happy and trust and believe in ur family
@tinashe, if you wanna try and work it out also. Maybe do baby steps. Don't totally move in with him, but stay couple days on and off. See how things go! Wishing you luck, hun on your decision!!! :)
think of u and ur baby first like let him be there for her and u before u move back see if he's true to his word or if it's all bull crap
Maybe just stay put and let him know that you and the baby need security and stability. Make him prove to you that he is in it for the long haul. He needs to show you that he is serious and is willing to do the work to earn your trust!