I am not used to everyone rushing around doing things for me and I keep getting 'told off' from my…
I am not used to everyone rushing around doing things for me and I keep getting 'told off' from my bosses. I'm 23 weeks and work in a nursery and a nightclub on the weekends (I never leave the bar, baby daddy is a doorman when he's home from sea so he's there and I always have a doorman at the end of my bar), obviously I don't do heavy lifting or anything and don't rush around serving the drinks like I'm used to(I take my time, customers drink on my time now haha) but I still keep getting told off for changing optics etc. I'm just not used to it! Finding it hard to adjust, I've worked my bum off since I was 14, sometimes even doing 3 jobs with as little as 2 hours sleep every night. Anyone else finding it hard to just stop??
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I was same with all mine. it's so annoying. I even get it now that I've had him that everyone is shocked I'm out and about! I've got 4 kids now I can't just Holt my life. you know your own limits and some people can't understand how some women can do more than others! 😊xx
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Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
I'm the same, I work 48 hrs of nightshift a week. Pregnancy is not an illness. x
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@laa286, @xxtxx I can get rather indignant about it. It's my first pregnancy so when people are telling me to slow down or quit nightclub I feel like I'm doing something wrong. I'm not silly about it all, I'm not wearing myself out or over doing anything so really don't feel the need to quit yet (I enjoy bar work, have done it for 4 years now. It's a social life while earning money) I even cut down on the number of nights I do and soon enough I'm going to be in cloakroom so will be sat on my bum. Would rather be earning money for my boy while I still can to be honest! 100% agree with you, pregnancy is not an illness and I know my limits. 😊 glad people are on my side ha xx