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josewuvbabywuv
josewuvbabywuv
josewuvbabywuv
Hi girls, i haven't been on here for a very long time. My son is 5 months tomorrow me & his dad couldn't work things out. His dad comes about once or twice a week to see him for about 2 hours. I found out a lot of stuff he's done, I've found pictures of him & a girl while we were together & he would come see our son for only a hour & leave. He only gives me 50$ a week. Yesterday he came to my house we argued & he left without seeing the baby. The only thing I could do is have my brother whom lives with me to call him & tell him to come see the baby & I'll leave so I won't be here with him. Well he came with like 2 friends in the car got the babies things ready & left mind you he is 20 years old & acts like 16. I was holding the formula so he wouldn't take the baby because he should be watching him at my house. He ended up leaving the baby & snatching the formula from me. I want to file child support. How many hours will he see the baby? Will he be able to take him on the weekends?
19.09.2015
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mrsmoore
mrsmoore
@josewuvbabywuv, your very welcome good luck just turned my papers in the other day just have to wait to hear back which could be weeks or even a few months which is the hard part ,but they don't know his address because I don't so from what my lawyer told me if they can't find his adress and they make a court date n he doesn't show they mom gets full custody but again could be different where you are
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josewuvbabywuv
josewuvbabywuv
Thank you! That helped a lot! @mrsmoore
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mrsmoore
mrsmoore
if you were breastfeeding feeding that could have been your excuse too not have the baby leave over night till your done but ,im dealing with child support right now for my 2 oldest kids dad and the paper states they do not deal with visitation and or custody they only deal with child support but it might be different where you are you can look it up on Google just put in for example childsupport in" Milwaukee Wisconsin " and you will probably find everything you need to know ,but ask for every other weekend if you can so you get more support the more he has them the less support you get
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josewuvbabywuv
josewuvbabywuv
Thank you so much :) ! @vadasmommy15
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mommyofvadanyx
mommyofvadanyx
if you have joint custody he will get baby every other week and holidays. if you have completely full custody you get to decide when he sees baby. (that's how my ex babymomma did it)
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mommyofvadanyx
mommyofvadanyx
yeah. if you tell the judge you don't trust him and what not that you want it with supervision you should get it!
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josewuvbabywuv
josewuvbabywuv
Oh okay! I get you! So if I'm okay with him taking the baby on weekends then they will allow it, & if I don't want to then they'll make it with supervision? @vadasmommy15
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mommyofvadanyx
mommyofvadanyx
I would just suggest trying to compromise with him about child support and see if y'all can work a plan out without involving the courts.
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josewuvbabywuv
josewuvbabywuv
Wowww I'm so bad informed. My whole family has been saying otherwise. Thank you so much! Just another question, he lives with his parents & 2 sisters. He shares a room with one sister does that matter? Will they not let him take the baby because they'll think the baby has no room to sleep there? Because I'm pretty sure he is gonna try to lie & tell the court the baby can't sleep in their. @mommy3kings
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mommyofvadanyx
mommyofvadanyx
@josewuvbabywuv every state has different laws I guess. but like i said you can make it where he can only see baby with supervision for so long on certain days. my ex had a 2yr old son and the baby mom made it where he only got to see baby at her house on certain days for about 2-3 hrs. and not get him on the weekends.
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mommy3kings1queen
mommy3kings1queen
@josewuvbabywuv,
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mommy3kings1queen
mommy3kings1queen
no the baby can be a new born and they will still let him take him on weekends or every other weekend
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josewuvbabywuv
josewuvbabywuv
No I just barely stopped breastfeeding, my milk dried. So it's only formula now. So will he have him every other weekend or every weekend? @vadasmommy15
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mommyofvadanyx
mommyofvadanyx
if baby is only breastfed they may not but if baby is formula fed that might happen.
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josewuvbabywuv
josewuvbabywuv
@mommy3kings,
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josewuvbabywuv
josewuvbabywuv
It doesn't matter if he's 5 months? @momy3kings
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mommyofvadanyx
mommyofvadanyx
Yeah he'll get baby every other weekend. but you can try to make it while he has baby he has to have supervision.
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josewuvbabywuv
josewuvbabywuv
Really? My parents tell me so much crap about that. They say child support can't do that because my son is only 5 months & he's too little for that. @mom y3kings
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mommy3kings1queen
mommy3kings1queen
yes if he pays child support he has baby friday-sunday its court ordered he picks baby up Friday at a certain time and drops baby off Sunday at about 6pm even on holidays he gets to share the baby with you my husband been on child support for my oldest for 4 years already and we have a contract that's court order
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