when your single friends have a better sex life then you when you've been married nearly 3 years:/ once I started to really show its down to once a week and sometimes not even that. He bitches he's in the mood but says he doesn't want actual sex... just a "release for himself." Makes me feel so many things... fat; ugly; undesirable and I could go on:/
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just think from his point of view! My boyfriend says it freaks him out to think about the baby in there while were having sex. Just talk to him about it, let him know how it makes you feel. one thing I've learned is guys way of thinking is so different they can seriously be oblivious to how they make us feel
Wtf? He would rather masturbate than have sex with his wife?! Selfish. So selfish. And yes you can get back out there. Men like that usually don't change and really you deserve to be treated better. I'm glad you're not afraid to let that dead fish go and find what you deserve! @mboroff91
I tried but when he's staring at movies with half naked chick's and tells me he takes care of himself daily. sorry no I'm about to be 24 with 2 kids. I'm still young and I can get back out there and find someone that will be attracted to me. screw feeling unattractive!
yes we've had sex 3 times since I been pregnant and the first time doesn't count bc we didn't know
Sad face. I know the feeling. My husband is great in so many ways but he just has a lower sex drive than me. It's like I'm the dude and he is the chick. He is contented to cuddle on the couch.! He always says he loves me and that I'm beautiful but it doesn't really feel good to get shut down. Rejection stings. We have had to have a few conversations about how necessary it is to me to have intimacy. Somewhere along the way he started to get it. He had no idea that every time he wanted to watch movies or just go to bed it hurt my feelings so bad. I was just like, what's wrong with me?! There's nothing wrong with you. It's just libidos not matching up. He gets it now so we do it a little more than he would initiate and a little less than I would, but it was a compromise and a little work at understanding eachother and now we are both pretty ok with about twice a week @mboroff91
I'm over it. he actually tried to get a BJ or HJ from me last night. Made me feel trashy honestly
Yeah its not my first pregnancy and this is baby 3 for him so not quite buying that "I'll hurt the baby" excuse