i wish my ol man would take me on dates but let alone dates at least talk to me... he hasn't in 3…
i wish my ol man would take me on dates but let alone dates at least talk to me... he hasn't in 3 day's sence we found out it's a girl. or he makes comments like ohhh well I guess I can't pass down my tools or my name or I'll have to sell the tools or the motorcycle or he says no sex for you cause I know what im gonna get again if I get you pregnant ugh gets on my nerves and pisses me off. i feel like im a fuck up and he just keeps bringing me down. idk how our relationship is going to survive this bullshit. idk if I want it too I mean Damn i love him but he don't have to be a jack ass about it... I got my hopes up to but im not taken it to heart im happy baby's healthy lil girl.
J·
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (31 нед.)
Remind him that the men determine the gender.
missing145user·
I mean technically it's his fault anyways, the sex is determined from sperm, not the egg. So if you feel like being rude back say it's his fault since he's so upset. That'd seriously get on my damn nerves though. Sorry to sound mean. I love having a little girl.
Jessica💕·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I have 3 girls and having my 4th ♡♡♡ I think there Easter to take care of lol
Jessica💕·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I tried he just gets more butt hurt so I don't try anymore.
missing74user·
Maybe he will come around. Most men do. Just takes them some time. ☺
Jessica💕·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
hoping cause if not im not sticking around to hear his bullshit complaining all the time. or staying for him to fucking cheat on me.
Jessica💕·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I've had enough that shit in my life don't need it. lol
Sheena·
Мама двоих (9 лет, 14 лет), ждёт третьего
Sorry you're going through this, I too went through something similar with my second daughter and her dad! As soon as we found out she was a girl he shut down bc he kept telling me it better not be a girl then he wouldn't participate in her baby shower or anything but he participated in his sons with his first wife! I should've realized then what a pos he was but hey we all have to learn from our mistakes right! 9 years later I kicked him out and am expecting my third baby girl with my bf and though he's not showing over the top excitement he has his moments and he wants a daddy's girl! Good luck Hun I know it's hard and it sucks but hang in there and if it's too much don't put urself through that and move on! Just bc you have four kids doesn't make you damaged in another mans eyes! All you need to worry about is those girls and be the best mommy you can be! That's all that matters! Don't let him bring u down or take ur joy away! Best wishes
Naily·
My husband wants a little girl so bad!
Angela·
Мама дочки (4 года)
the only person he can blame if he wants to blame anyone for it being a girl is himself! you can only pass a 'x' chromosome bc you are female (xx) he is the deciding factor (xy) so if he is shooting all girls that's not your fault. tell him to suck it up buttercup and quit being an ass to you.
Jessica💕·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
thanks I hope everything gets better with time though. lol I hope y'all get your girl lol