🔺WHAT WOULD YOU DO?🔺
The father of my child is my ex. We dated for almost 2 years, got pregnant, lost our son at 22 weeks, and broke up. Almost a year later we end up having casual sex ONCE, and I end up getting pregnant again. I am due in December and he hasn't come to a single appt (he lives 2 hours away and he doesn't have the money -his excuse). I'm so torn on whether or not to let him be a part of her life. He has a girlfriend now. He says he wants to be around all of the time, but my argument is that if he "can't even come to appts NOW..what makes him think he would visit his daughter after she's here? Especially with paying me child support". I have a sono next week that he will be coming to, and want to discuss it further with him.
Sorry for the long rant. I normally don't do this. Would appreciate any advice from someone in a similar situation maybe?