today I was asked if I was going to tell my father.why would I tell him ? he was never there for me all of sudden he pops up this year by calling me wishing me HBD after how many years!my aunt told me he would dissaprove of me if he knew I was gay so I'm sure he would just dissaprove of my Lil blessing.I was His first born he left and started a family which I don't blame him for doing but a call or a card would have been nice right??!!I do wish we could have had a relationship but he never put in the effort until it was too late #hisloss#sorrynotsorry