Ok my MIL has already been told she cannot keep our son because her and my FIL smoke in the house. I haven't even taken him over there...well I accidentally posted in the wrong group message about my husband and I going to visit friends at the end of October and she asked if she was going to get to have him one night...I'm not trying to be rude but what don't you understand about you cant keep my son at you're house or have him in your car? I will not subject my newborn to your smoke infested house or car. I know she's jealous because we are staying at my parents while we are waiting for our house to be finished
(2 more weeks!) but that's not my fault we made ourselves very clear when we got pregnant that it wouldn't be tolerated anymore and they made their choice. Sorry not worth the sids risk...