so my work recommend that I have my doctor help me file for flma because I have really bad migraines and my nausea and vomiting medication doesn't work when I have migraines and I'm sick at work all the time. well today I went to the doctor and asked her if she would fill out the paperwork work for me and she was really rude and said no that I needed to see a neurologist and when I told her I've been seeing one for months and that they said they couldn't do anything for me until after the baby is born she said well I guess you'll just have to find another neurologist. do you guys think I should find a new doctor she yelled at me and really hurt my feelings saying that all pregnant women have migraines and I'll just have to learn to get over it
I would definitely find a new doctor or see if the neurologist you've been seeing can help with a note or recommendation?
Oh sorry my bad :( preggo brain lol!!
It was her doctor being rude to her and wouldn't give her the note for work. @kmally also, yes find a new doctor and a complaint. No doctor has the right to yell at you and treat you badly.
@r8chel23, My boss said the same thing...I had a horrible first trimester and was accumulating a ton of "unexcused" absences. I went to my Dr and he immediately said they'd handle the paperwork... I got approved for intermittent leave so all of my "unexcused" absences were excused. Sounds like you need a new Dr... if they are not ensuring your comfort and health now...it would make me rethink the care I'd get when it was baby's showtime.
it's the doctor that doesn't want to help me
And if you have an HR department I would go directly through them because technically your boss just needs to know that you've been approved and the conditions of your leave not your medical reason for being on leave if you don't want them too.
Do you have a doctor's note? If not I would get one. They have to have a doctor's recommendation if you want to file I do believe. If you have a note and she's still treating you like that I would go to a higher up/corporate/HR.
She could've said things better to you but it's not much they'll do.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
the amount of women who are clueless about their own anatomy is so sad and shocking. a lot of the women are older than me and have more children then I do 😳
now I understand that everyone has their own opinion on the topic and grown adults can do whatever they want with their bodies but to deny facts and make up false statements about your own anatomy when it comes to your unborn child is just so disappointing.
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Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
You are still early on in your pregnancy. Yes find another Doctor especially if this one makes you upset and no doctor should yell at you, my doctor is pretty straight forward and is semi-sympathetic I should say but she would never make me cry about anything... If you don't feel comfortable or confident then yes find new doctors all around. No since in staying somewhere you are not happy with. Good luck