Sooo My BD Said He's Not Going To Be At The Birth Of Our Son Or Signing The Birth Certificate Unless…

Girl my baby daddy wasn't there for our son's birth.. Told me he was going to sign over rights (which he legally has no rights to my son until he takes me to court since we were never married) wasn't gonna pay child support and is telling everyone that he isn't his son and that he looks Asian (we're both white). My son is two weeks old and he hasn't asked to see him at all. I have my son my last name and didn't put him on the birth certificate. I filed paperwork for child support already as well! Don't let it get you down! I have been doing it on my own and being the sole provider for my son since I left baby daddy when i was 9 weeks pregnant. There's so many ladies out there doing it solo... You can do it too! I'm not gonna lie and tell you it's easy... Because it most definitely IS NOT! But what I am gonna say is it's worth it! All the extra cuddles and hugs and kisses. You got this 👍🏼👌🏼💪🏼

Thank You So Much For This! 😘🙌 I Told Him If He Doesn't Plan On Putting A Ring On My Finger Now Or In The Future What's The Point Of Him Having Your Last Name..He's Already Took Me Through Enough Shit Since I've Been Pregnant I'm Over It..He Was Like I'm Messed Up For Doing That Oh Well..My Son Has His Mother So That's All That Matters 💙💙👶🙌

@gabrielsmommy2015, ^^

Men don't have a lot to bargain with in this situation. You have the baby, you can control him through that fact more than the other way around. If he really wants his kid to have his name, maybe he really wants to be a permanent part of his life? Idk but if so that's a great thing.

@mommabird, The Only Reason He Wants Him To Have It Is Because His Last Name (Taylor) Ends With Him Because He's The Youngest In The Family And He Wants The Baby To Carry It On If Something Happens To Him..He Hasn't Really Done Shit Since I've Been Pregnant Until Last Week And I'm Almost 7 Months Like Wtf

@summerlove96, my baby daddy changed after I got preg too and since then I have been strong on my own. Like it's not easy j just started too and really don't know how strong am gonna have to be.

@raheemah, You're Right..I Just Have To Be The Best Mother I Can To My Baby

@summerlove96, that's what I tell myself too. My kid needs me

@summerlove96, my baby daddy and I were engaged.. Until I found out that he was cheating on me with his ex that he also got knocked up while I was also pregnant with his son. I made the best decision I could at the time for my son and not a day goes by that I doubt or regret my decision to leave. I know that my decision was the best I could make. He put me through hell when I left him... Threats harassment stalking you name it. You're a strong girl... Just do what's best for you and your baby! You'll be so much better off in the long run 👌🏼