ok so I don't know if I'm dumb for being mad about this but how would you feel if someone bought…

hell no! that's your daughter and she'll wear what you want her to wear until she full capable to pick out what she wants to wear, who are they to tell you what to put your daughter in!

No that bugs me too! my mil bought a my first fourth of July outfit for next year and I was upset. I know she meant well but that's my favorite holiday and I wanted to do it and I feel like I'll be rude if I don't use it. Now I'm stuck in a strange position. I understand I think it's inadvertently rude

I'm just mad they wanted to buy her Halloween costume I said no.. what makes you think her birthday outfit is any different? I'm just annoyed I feel like I can't even be a parent around these people!! @042716

@bbyenolan22 I just don't really understand why they think that's their place.. like I appreciate it but buy he everyday things not special occasions especially if they knew I was looking at things already

I wouldn't use it if I was you idc if it's rude or not I didn't ask you to buy it you bought it on your own you know? She's your daughter you buy her what you want her to wear on her first birthday who gives a damn if they get mad

I'd buy her outfit anyway and put her in what you bought

fuck that dont use it. buy what you want and put her in it.