Ladies? seen this on fb... what's your opinion? who does come 1st , who should come 1st & Why? ⁉

But why would you put your husband before your kids? If my kids were starving and so was my husband and I only had enough food for one, it'd definitely go in my kids mouth. If he didn't understand that then he is a selfish man! My kids will ALWAYS be number one and be my top priority.

oh we were supposed to answer why lol. okay well first if you don't have your wife in hugest esteem she will feel very left out and not as wanted. Not to mention she is your wife- your equal she needs to know she is first. Children next because after your wife the children need to know you love them and support them and will always be there for them. next the mom, although mom's are very important the need to not necessarily take a back seat but they do need to be put "lower down" because you have a wife and child. Not saying ignore or don't them he monkey care of her but she doesn't really come first. than baby momma since she is still semi part of your life.

wife, child, momma, baby momma.

Child mom wife baby mama

wife, child, mom, baby mom

you should always be on your wife's side.

your child you are taking to raise to be on their own

your mother is important, but will eventually leave you behind

and your baby mom will always be your daughters mother, so it's important to keep her In the loop

I think maybe for husband it's that way but not for women. maybe?? @marce88

child.. wife.. mom.. baby mom..

This is interesting, my Pastor posed a similar question in a sermon and stated that the wife actually comes first because of the vows made to become one then child then mom and so on. I somewhat agree..

I think children wife parents then baby momma.

Agreed!!! ^^^

First off baby momma is last. Daughter/son should always come first. Mom and wife should be equal. You don't want to put your mother before your spouse but you don't want to put your spouse before your mother either.