So apparently me and my bestfriend really did get the same bedding set.. I thought they was different just in the same color and all.. But only one pattern is different. The bedding set I have is a present from my fiancé mom. And I tried my best to avoid getting the same bedding but some how it happen anyways. So my bestfriend is upset about it.
Upset with me too.. Pretty much just upset that she worked hard for her nursery.. My nursery was about owls.. But I didn't want cartoons as Luna's bedding I just wanted something simple. I actually didn't plan on getting a bed set.. We don't have that kind of money to get expensive $150 + bedding sets.. It's funny how ones with cartoons cost cheaper then just plain bed sets. It really made me upset. But oh wells..I wish i could return the bed set.. It's a pretty bed set. But I ruined my friend nursery.. We don't see each other but once a year.. And I some how manage to mess things up far away. We stop talking about it. But I feel like now we can't talk.. I'm about to have a baby soon and I really want her to still at least be supportive even if it's a text. She got really mad and I understand her.. I really didn't know she was going to get this mad about it tho.. For me it's just a bedding.. Luna is more important then anything anyone have givin me. She's the main prize I gotta keep up with and care of.. Material things is just temporary things.. And if my bestfriend is gonna let the bedding get in between us then she can go for it.. I love her more then the bedding.. And it hurts me to know I hurt her. Even if I explained I tried hard to avoid it.. But it just flys over her head. Sadly my babies room is just a reminder of how I mess up my bestfriend nursery.
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I'm with @alex1azariyah2, my best friend would have been like "Girl, we have amazing taste!" I don't understand how a person can let materialistic things get in the way of any relationship. You're really sweet for not wanting to make her upset but it's not something you did just to spite her and she needs to stop acting like she's 6! She has a good friend that she's going to lose because she's petty!
thats not a real friend my friend would of been like twinsies xD lol
She's being petty as hell if it's over a bedding 😒 I could understand if it were something like you naming your baby as the same as hers but it's not ❌ she needs to grow up.
Thank you all I really let this go.. But tonight it really bothered me again. It just hurt me that's all. And it's true if she does let it get in between us then it's just best for me to step back.. I don't want to..
Honestly it's just bedding... If she will let the color or pattern of YOUR child's bed set get in the way of your friendship then she's not a true friend. It's a bed set... And you are miles away from each other, really...
I think, if she really is a true friend, she'll get over it, and not let a crib set come between you guys. she needs to realize what you already know, friendship is more important.
Well I'm not changing it. Or returning it.. Just the thought of her letting it get in between is hurts me. @mermaidmommy
I really don't think it's as big of a deal as she's making it.
but, if it's that big of a deal... look it up on toys r us /babies r us online.. if you find it online, you may be able to take it in and explain to them, that your mil bought it online, and you Don't have a recite and you just want to exchange it for a different pattern.
that's what they did at target anyway.
@mermaidmommy, she got hers at toy r us. My mother in law got it online cause she lives in Florida she what ever we get from her is ordered online for us.. It's done by the same person just in different company and really a different style just a bit..
SHE'S TRIPPING AND THEY AREN'T EVEN THE SAME. noooo, I'd keep it. like really? stop being a child and trying to ruin our friendship over a crib set.
if she's going to let crib bedding come between you, then what kind of friend is that anyway.. no offense.
but it's not like you had control over the bed set you didn't even buy... it's not like you told his mother to go get the exact same one.. and she should understand that.
thousands of people probably have that exact same bed set right now, she isn't the only one.. she has to understand it was an accident, and a gift. you aren't just not going to use it because she's throwing a fit. maybe it's just pregnancy hormones.. or, do you know where your mil got the set? you could probably take it in to exchange it... and explain to your mil that your friend is upset that you have the same set... she might be more understanding about the situation..
@mommabear2015, yeah what my mother said and my fiancé mom said. A lot of people got the same bed set. I actually figure you know she would be like oh well at least one pattern is different. I tried to make it positive. But it all turned to negative.
I really care about my friends feelings. And this is probably the most difficult moment.. I ruined something special for her.
If she lives far away it's not like she's gonna see it anyways. I don't get the big deal, hundreds of people probably have that same set. Ugh thats childish to me ✋😒
Yeah.. I know. But she doesn't see it like that. I wouldn't have mind if she got something the same as me. I don't care really. Like i said material things don't last anyways.. I just know she worked hard for her stuff. Mine was just givin to me.. I guess it just best to stay away for a while.. And if she wants to talk again I'm always here for her.. She'll always be my bestfriend. She said she now has to change her bed set... I told her to keep it. I took down all my pictures on fb of the bedding. and she was like it's too late now everyone saw it. @reaganmommy2015
It is just bedding it doesn't make sense to be mad over it. I think it's a compliment when someone get the same thing as you. She will get over it sooner or later.
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