I NEED ADVICE! I am currently 25 weeks pregnant with a baby girl. I have a 4 year old son as well. the father of our daughter is not the father of my son. my sons dad was abusive and bailed after 2 weeks and never seen again. made life easy in a way. but difficult to raise my son on my own. my issue lately is, my fiancé has only been in my sons life since he was 2 years old and up. this will be his first blood child and he has no baby experience. I have been struggling a lot. my health with this baby is horrible. I've been out of work the past 2 weeks now and most likely will be out until after the baby is born. my daughter has a rare condition called Velamentous Cord Insertion and also has a lobe that should not be there. along with several unprotected vessels. I am high risk and I really need his help. I've been doing most of the work. i painted the baby's room, been taking care of my son mainly alone again, doing laundry, driving everyone around and house chores. I need his help because I'm not even supposed to be doing anything but resting. I get frustrated and annoyed but instead of confronting him, I keep my mouth shut and walk away. I've only spoken to him once about helping me thinking that the long talk would be enough... considering he doesn't like to talk much at all. he is not prepared. I know no one is ever really ready for a baby. but how do I get the help I need? being anemic on top of all these appointments I've been going to alone isn't helping either. I don't wanna go through this alone again and I'm terrified. how do I help him prepare without being a crazy pregnant lady? any suggestions... please! 😞