So I'm new to preggie, and I'm 12 weeks and two days pregnant with my first, my boyfriend has a little girl, who I love…

I hope so... I was there when she was three months old I love that baby girl. I have talked to him about his family thought he just doesn't actually talk to them about me and how I feel

im going through Wat u going through. I feel just how u feel. I just tell him how I was feeling. he understood where I was coming from. wit his family. wit the baby mama dont worry so much she will come around. Trust me my bf BM took the baby away from him because she say he spends all his money on me but not true. I make my own n he makes his own. but dont stress she will coming around.

Haha yes, it's fine I get it bad sometimes. he was there as much as she would let him :/ her new boyfriend became abusive to their daughter and her father and I took her to the hospital the night we noticed it, he ended up going to jail, but baby momma cut off our visitation. He's not on the birth certificate so he doesn't have control over the situation, and she dropped of the face of the earth we have no idea where she's at. He's adamant about being here for me and baby to be. I just wish he would talk to his family, I want to be more involved with them, but they act like it would kill them

Ohok . So you are pregnant with baby #2 right now ? Lol . I have pregnancy brain .

if she doesn't want her daughter there and he wasn't there for his daughter why is that bad? put yourself in her shoes

@elenaj, he has a three year old with someone else, and we are working on baby #2 :)

you have to think of whats best for you and your baby and only you know over anyone what that is. go with your gut and if they aren't wanting to out in any effort or they are acting like they dont care then step back for a bit. is the father not wanting to be there for you and the baby?

I'm confused so how many kids does he have ? 2 ? Or 1 ?