So I'm new to preggie, and I'm 12 weeks and two days pregnant with my first, my boyfriend has a little girl, who I love dearly, but her mom has stopped visitation. My boyfriend and his other baby momma did not have a relationship so she didn't include him or his family in the pregnancy or the birth, however, I am trying my damnedest to include them in everything, but I just feel like his family is pushing us away even more so now and I'm on the brink of just giving up, and I'm actually beginning to understand why the other baby momma doesn't want her or their daughter in their lives. Am I awful for thinking or feeling this way?
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im going through Wat u going through. I feel just how u feel. I just tell him how I was feeling. he understood where I was coming from. wit his family. wit the baby mama dont worry so much she will come around. Trust me my bf BM took the baby away from him because she say he spends all his money on me but not true. I make my own n he makes his own. but dont stress she will coming around.
Haha yes, it's fine I get it bad sometimes. he was there as much as she would let him :/ her new boyfriend became abusive to their daughter and her father and I took her to the hospital the night we noticed it, he ended up going to jail, but baby momma cut off our visitation. He's not on the birth certificate so he doesn't have control over the situation, and she dropped of the face of the earth we have no idea where she's at. He's adamant about being here for me and baby to be. I just wish he would talk to his family, I want to be more involved with them, but they act like it would kill them
Ohok . So you are pregnant with baby #2 right now ? Lol . I have pregnancy brain .
if she doesn't want her daughter there and he wasn't there for his daughter why is that bad? put yourself in her shoes
@elenaj, he has a three year old with someone else, and we are working on baby #2 :)
you have to think of whats best for you and your baby and only you know over anyone what that is. go with your gut and if they aren't wanting to out in any effort or they are acting like they dont care then step back for a bit. is the father not wanting to be there for you and the baby?
I'm confused so how many kids does he have ? 2 ? Or 1 ?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
I am so sick of my husbands family 😒
My boyfriend is so upset that I didn’t give our son his last name but I have 4 other kids that has my last name I didn’t want to make him the only one with a different last name. Is that selfish of me? Or should he just understand. We not married
My boyfriend snuck and turned on my find my friends on my iPhone so he can know where I am at all times🤦🏽♀️ he is so silly lol I love his crazy butt
I hope so... I was there when she was three months old I love that baby girl. I have talked to him about his family thought he just doesn't actually talk to them about me and how I feel