Upset! gonna rant 😠😠😠😠 I work damn hard to be able to say everything in my life I got myself. No…

Upset! gonna rant

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I work damn hard to be able to say everything in my life I got myself. No hand outs. I don't want anyone to ever be able to say I owe them a damn thing.

I know I shouldn't let the opinion of others bug me but I can't help it. Just found out some girl I haven't talked to in almost 2 years is out talking shit about me saying everything is handed to me! 😡😡😡

Well I'd like to know what exactly has been handed to me! I moved out of my parents house before I was 18. I have had a job since I was 15. I saved my money. And when I could afford to and was able to find an apartment complex that would look the other way on my age I moved out. I was tired of living in an abusive home and I fixed it. I paid my bills. I bought my food. I couldn't take my siblings with me legally but i had a brother old enough to make his own choices and 6 months into living on my own i brought him with me. I graduated high school living on my own. He was still in school so I worked to be able to support him and myself. I bought my own car. My own gas. Paid my insurance. When I was 18 I was working roughly 75 hours a week. And I didn't like it but I never complained. It was just what I had to do. And it never was optional to me. Either I did it or my brother didn't have food. I either went to work or we were homeless. Simple as that.

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I moved alot. And I got myself into some trouble. But even then at my lowest point nobody took care of me. I still found ways to feed myself. I provided myself a place to sleep. When I got in trouble nobody else came. I didn't call anyone. I dealt with my punishments. I did my time. And once I did I moved again. Still on my own for the next few years.

I moved in with my fiance last year. And even though I lived with someone else I still bought all our food. I still worked and helped make sure our bills were paid. We found a house. We saved money. We worked our asses off. Now we're buying that house. Before I'm 23 I will own a house with my husband.

Right now we do live with my mom. But I'm still not sitting on my ass. I very much appreciate my parents giving us a place to stay until our house is clear to live in. But we still work our asses off. We still pay our bills ourselves. We have not asked for a single penny. I buy groceries for my mom's house. I babysit for her. I do everything I can to make it known that I appreciate the help but I don't need it. And my family knows that I completely have the capability to just walk out and decide I can do things myself. 🙋 and honestly I feel like there's a certain respect that comes with that.

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that's my rant. I just find it irritating that someone is going to talk shit but not even know the story. So many people be complaining about there situation and it drives me insane. I understand needing to vent but if you're a grown ass adult and don't like your situation then change it! Everybody is full of excuses. Making the changes might not be fun, but that's not why we make them.

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I mean seriously! I saw some girl on Facebook complaining because for her birthday her parents bought her a car, but it was a beater car and she didn't think that was fair! Um woah slow down there crazy. You were just handed a car. A working car. Why th the hell are you complaining! If it's not good enough get off your ass and buy your own!

Ugh.

The entitlement some people feel is infuriating.