So I thought in a marriage you are supposed to help one another out whether that be financially,…
So I thought in a marriage you are supposed to help one another out whether that be financially, physically, etc. well I'm not working right now, main reason is cause he doesn't want me to and its just hard on me right now. So I'm -$20 in my bank account cause they took the service charge out and a late fee. Well I asked my husband if he'd put the money in there. He replies with, "G******,(sorry don't like the word), I'm already struggling and I can't keep doing this. You don't need an account anyways so just let it go!" I ended up just telling him not to worry bout it I'll just take care of it myself! But really $20??? I mean get real! But yet it's okay for him to go buy accessories for himself and his Harley. When we don't even have everything we need for the baby! Like I don't mind it every now and then cause he does work his butt off and he deserves to but not every single paycheck and then when I'm in need of something he wants to bitch and complain! Like I'm just bout fed up with it all. I can't handle it anymore. So I'll go look for a job and support my damn self than! Since it's too hard for him to support us! Although he makes more than the average person! Just sayin...
Ashley Huber·
Мама сына (2 года)
Awww:( I'm hear if you wanna talk
missing41user·
Мама двоих (8 лет, 8 лет), ждёт третьего
Does he give you money?
Amanda Robertson·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (25 нед.)
@mommiesworld, thank you, I just wish he'd understand. Some men think that pregnancy is so easy and it's not hard . Well when you have the probs I have had it is hard. I guess he thinks I just do it to get out of working which isn't true I hate sitting at the house all day!
Amanda Robertson·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (25 нед.)
@queeneden, no he doesn't "give" me money. He does support my son & I though. By making sure we have food on the table and bills are paid.
Amanda Robertson·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (25 нед.)
But here lately I've caught him lying about how much his check was. He would say it's less than what it really was and when I confront him bout it he tries to say that he did it cause he wanted to save it. But yet there's never any money saved cause he blows it on whatever he wants for himself!
Amanda Robertson·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (25 нед.)
But anytime I see a deal on baby things he blows it off! Like idk it's just starting to get to me! He wasn't there for our first son. Cause he didn't want the responsibility. Our first son is 5 almost 6 now and he's only been back in his life for the last 3 years and were married now. He says he doesn't wanna miss any of our 2nd sons life. And he wants to support us etc. but yet when it comes to buying things for the baby he's not interested. And that's how he was with our first. I just pray to god I didn't make a mistake!