It's so hard to finally get it through you head that you haven't been treated right because you just ignore it because you don't want to be like other couple or like your parents so you do everything you can to make sure your SO stays happy and you work your ass off doing 12 hour shifts at a hospital while being pregnant so you guys can have nice things and pay bills while he doesn't work. It takes for someone to smack you in the face with the hurtful truth that it's not right and for you to finally break down . I honestly don't know what to do I thought he was perfect and we'd have everything right but I'm the only one trying to make it in life while he's just doing his thing . I don't know what to do ....
So I keep feeling these lil sharp pains on my right side. You do get pains like that before you start your period right.? Remember I had that dark brown spotting for a few hours last month on the 22. My period suppose to start today.
Locking your doors
We are having a discussion on one of my birth boards from my older kids about locking doors and security alarms. There are many of us (me included) who do not lock our doors at home (I actually don't even have a deadbolt on my house and we don't lock it when we leave either), and others who think that's totally weird. So what do you do? Do you lock your doors? Do you think it's weird that people don't?
Trigger warning
What is your opinion on the Philando Castile shooting? I just saw a recording of his 4 year old telling the mom not to scream so she doesn't get shot. That video broke my heart. I haven't read into the whole thing but do you think the cop was in the right?
I really don't understand the judgment between being a working mom or a stay at home mom. If you need to work, work. If not, don't. No need to degrade other women for doing the opposite of you. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
He find jobs finds one thing wrong with it and quits . He goes out almost every night cause his cousin takes him and he hardly try's to find a job and when I ask him if he has applied he gets all pissy like I'm on his case all the time