I believe that my baby's problems our from me smoking but my doc said just to cut back my boyfriend hates me literally destroyed me tonight with his words. I just want to pack up the little baby things that I did get and just die. I haven't stopped crying in hours and I know I messed up but I'm not a smart person obviously for smoking while pregnant. I feel like if she survives I should just give her up for adoption. I don't deserve her, I dont even deserve to live anymore.
Stay strong sweetie. You may have smoked yes, but does that mean you'll love the baby any less? You are mommy and right now all baby knows. Don't be so hard on yourself. You have an amazing support system her with all of us mommies. We are here for you
Don't say that.. You have to be strong for your baby. Yes smoking prob wasn't the best decision but some moms smoke and don't have any issues, some do and do have issues. You take that gamble. All you can do now, is quit smoking and be strong for your baby girl. God will take care of you. You deserve your little girl. You really do. If you love her, and want the best for her.. You deserve her.
No one is perfect. We all make mistakes and we learn from them. I hope you feel better. Everyone deserves a second chance. I'll pray for you honey. 🙏🏻
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
smoking weed or cigarrets