My SO is seriously driving me crazy !! He gets so annoyed w/ me when I ask him to hold our son ! Like seriously I wish he would help out some more !! When I ask for help he always gives me the same response: " I'm tired from work " like I'm not tired from caring for our son ?!! Seriously ?!! Like today he wouldn't even come along for a walk with our baby ?!!!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
Is it weird that I get annoyed at the thought of people helping me when baby is home? People ask me this all the time. My SO and I plan to share night shifts, etc. Am I stubborn? It's our kid so I feel like we can do it on our own👍🏼 lol.
Anyone else can't shave their hoo-ha? I asked my hubby when I was pregnant with my son if he would help me shave and he said he would well I ended up not needing help now that I'm pregnant with our daughter I can't see it and asked him today to help me shave and he said he didn't want to cut me really so I had to feel everything and just hope I got it all
I'm in ypur same boat.. except I work too... I didn't before... trust me... taking care of the baby all day is waaaay better than having to work all day and then coming home to a cranky baby because his father doesn't have as great parenting skills as u do.