I'm 20 weeks pregnant and i'm placing my baby up for adoption and i know its the right choice but i…

is there a particular reason why?

Beause i just moved down from my state, very young and not ready to care for a child... Its just the better choice for my child and myself

@yahuahsdaughter,

@michelledesfosses, sorry to say this, but I think someday you will regret about it... This baby is your little part of you, I think when you will meet your baby, you'll never want to leave

well what I've learned about having a baby is if you're not ready then I think its right you give the baby up. I was ready to have a baby and we planned this and its such a huge responsibility. This changes your life and if you're not ready to make sacrifices for you child then let someone who wants to do it. Dont let anyone make you feel bad about your decision because you have to raise that child if you keep it. not them!

Thank you @sexii_diiva thats exactly how i feel!

i also wasn't ready when i got pregnant and its true your whole life changes but it changes in a good way. being a mom is the next best thing thats ever happened to me. once you have your child in your hands its a feeling i can't describe. i know you are young but in a couple of years you will be an adult and then what? you will probably get married or have more kids.. you will always look back and think..how is my child. does she/he look like me..? is she with a good family?

no one is ready to take care of their child. we make ourselves ready. if i was in your position i would use that as a positive thing. having moved to another state no one knows you so you can make a new life with your child. you never feel alone. my baby is the reason i keep living. when i was preg with her i was going through a really hard time after i gave birth i was even suicidal but my baby gave me the strength to keep loving for her. its a feeling only a mother knows. my baby smile makes me smile and be happy. my life is no longer just about me. its a beautiful transforming thing to have your own flesh and blood in your hands looking at your eyes. i am not going to tell you what you should do. but think about your decision really well without letting fear or other people's opinion about your life decide .

i wish you well

blessings

"keep living"

i just realised you are 18 i thoufht you where younger, excuse my above mention of age.

i had my baby 21 totally unplanned best decision ever. she is now 3yrs i am now going to college i don't regret one thing. years pass but life is not about how much you accomplish but how much love you have given and received. my baby is part of my heart forever.