Asking for your opinion ladies .. So my husband doesn't want me to post any pics of me In a bikini on FB or Instagram ,…

@mluvs7 ☺

@lovelyonejess, thanks girly for your opinion 😘

I think that if it's what u like and enjoy than y not !! 😘 n if its OK for u to wear bikini's to the beach what the difference here ??? 😒 guys !! I hate to be told what to wear !

I don't think you're off base at all. I agree with you. I will never tell anyone to leave a relationship because I'm not the one in there you know... but relationships are about both people putting the needs of each other first it should never be one sided.

@trezelle, yea I really didn't want to put this out ... But we don't agree at all I feel like I've compromised with him by letting him delete any pics he doesn't like , but he deleted them all then my gfs on FB are like what happened to your pic it sucks cause I feel like it's not me to let a man control me but I love him n it's hard .. I don't like to see him upset but I don't like to feel unhappy with what's going on .. So I felt I'd ask all u ladies too see if I'm way off base or not .

@mluvs7, I agree with you! Its your body and you should do with it what you please within the limitations of your marriage. I honestly don't think that asking this question on here will help you in anyway. A lot of the females on here are conservative and would probably kill themselves if their husband's asked them to.... You should talk to your husband about it, express yourself to him. Try to understand his point while explaining yours. I wish you the best though.

The thing is I wouldn't care if he posts pics with a shirt off ... I'm proud of how he looks n I know he is all mine . Maybe I'm different , I'm trying to understand him I just don't all the way . He met me knowing I do post pics like this he didn't have a problem with it till now n it's odd .. He has passwords to all my emails , FB n Instagram because I don't want him to worry .. I just feel like he is trying to change me n I don't like it

I think you need to respect where your husband is coming from. My husband is the same way, he doesn't tell me not to...he just lets me know that it isn't something he likes me to do. You can be proud of your body without posting photos online. Show it off to your hubby! 😉 I just always look at things with my husband like, if he doesn't want me to do this and I don't want him to do that then we honor our marriage by respecting each other that way. In all honesty I wouldn't want my man posting pictures shirtless all over his pages. It's not because I'm insecure just because I'm territorial and he's the same way about me. You can be proud of your body without posting bikini photos :) But ultimately it's up to you, good luck girl :)

Personally I wouldent post full bikini pictures, your husband means well by saying that. He know's how beautiful you are and knows it will catch males attention. Yes it's your body but imagine if it was the other way around

I think you need to honor your husband. be proud of your body but also honor your marriage. if there was something you didn't want him to do and asked him to not do it and he did it anyways the feeling of hurt would get to you, even if he tried to say it was his choice and he was proud.

@kmommyoct15, thanks girl! I agree 100% !

that sounds kind of controlling he should be glad your secure about your body & you love your body if he trusts you he shouldn't worry about other people seeing u in a bikini I say you go girl & u should be proud!!!!

If your husband doesn't want you to I don't think you should, and I'm sure you'd want him to respect your wishes as well.. Good luck to you. (Hope you didn't take that offensive).

I agree. Bodies can be admired and you can be proud of it. :)

If it's your husband...then it's not really your body to post