Okay mom's who have had their babies, how do I keep my 6 day old awake during the day?????? He sleeps too much during the day and is wide awake at night and it's making me and his daddy argue in the middle of the night cause he thinks he needs to sleep and mommy doesn't.... 😒 so someone help me please???
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Most FTM have a hard time sleeping when baby sleeps at first, it'll get better for both you and baby. When you're more comfortable being a momma sleep will come a little easier for you. I'm sorry your SO isn't being kind, Your son is lucky to have you as his mother! I know you couldn't take baby away from dad for good but it's not good for him to be yelled at and it could cause a lot of emotional/insecurity issues with baby. Maybe next time your SO yells at him, tell him in a calm voice that your son doesn't know that he's doing something thats upsetting daddy and that yelling will only make it worse and try to take baby into another room. Also take as much help from your mom, I know you want your SO to take responsibility too but right now it seems it's all on you, it's ok to take help from willing hands.... It'll save your sanity and keep you healthy mentally and physically. Stay strong momma, you're doing wonderful!
@liamandaria, I did today he said he was sorry. @adamsmaaa yeah I will never take his baby from him... I can't do or say that to him... 😔
Tell him if he keeps up that behavior , you will take baby away for good! Wth will he do when the baby is a little bigger and does the usual things that curious babies do? Tell him to calm down starting now!
yeah I don't put up with that I didn't have my parents around very much . but have try sitting down and talking to him about it ?@mommytomaximus
@liamandaria, my mother helps me with him but I don't want her to I would want him too... But he just so complicated
@mommytomaximus, you need to tell him to help you i got really sick cause all i was doing was taking care of the baby .i didnt sleep i forgot to eat alot too.I made my sons dad move out because of that .he never wanted to help even during the day he always had an excuse .I hope you find something that works for you hun .
@mommytomaximus, tell Matt that you need your rest aswell because if you don't your body can shut down on you and then you won't be any help
@adamsmaaa, that's what I'm saying so I take my son away from him and he gets mad that I did that
Yeah when it comes to my baby, I don't play. no one yells at my child. How can someone even be angry with a baby. They have NO clue what's going on
@chantebrandon, I love my baby and he doesn't deserve to be yelled at.. I let my SO sleep which is sad.. But when I need him to help me he'll get this fit
@mommytomaximus, Right he's only a baby he can't help it. It'll get better mommy trust me hang in there.
@adamsmaaa, I told him next time he yells at my son I'm punching him in his face
@chantebrandon, girl I do yell at him telling him that he's just a baby and he's a newborn.. He's gonna cry but he yells at me saying "lose your fucking attitude" and I just shut up.... @mamabritt @squeakpipsmommy0607 I kinda figured there wasn't anything to do cause how young he is right now. Man he wanted this baby too and it's like he has to sleep and not me.. Cause he works he says.. Like what the fuck am I doing? Taking care of his kid 24/7 everyday... Yeah he lets me take naps here and there during the day when he's off on weekends but when he comes home from work it's like he's the one that has to rest and I can't. I try to sleep when my son sleeps but i can't it's weird...
Nooooo! Poor tiny baby! He just entered this world. He doesn't know day and night. It'll take a couple-few months. Try to sleep when he does if U can! If it makes U feel better. It took my baby adam 4 months! Lol lately he's up MOST the night . He had colic so he cried nonstop for no reason a lot the first 4 months
@mommytomaximus, There's nothing u can do especially that young!!! They cannot tell the difference between day and night just yet give it time! It's a newborn baby, And your SO is acting crazy smh he's a baby he can't help it. That is crazy, And yes they tell you to sleep when they sleep, trust me it's not going to last forever!! I wish my SO would yell at our son thank God he's very patient and great to him. Put our feet down once again he's a baby tell him to get over it!!!
He's only 6 days old. He's go. A sleep all day lol my son didn't start sleeping through out the night until he turned 2 months.
Yeah they aren't used to the whole night and day thing. tell him to calm down he can't yell at the baby. that only makes it worst try rocking or singing or shhhing in his ear that could help. and you need to sleep when he does during the day
@adamsmaaa, 😭 that's what. I tell Matt but he just yells at the baby to stop crying .... 😭😭😭
All babies are like this. It's natural. They switch on their own with time. Takes tons of patience but it's so worth it ☺️
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Do you swaddle?
How long did you swaddle? Was it hard to break the habit of them needing to be swaddled to sleep? Do you swaddle during the day or only at night? Please tell me everything about swaddling!!!
when do they flip their sleep he sleep all day and then awake at night its really making it hard to get anything done during the day because im sleepy what do I do?
WOULD YOU RATHER...
1. Have a baby that naps during the day and won’t sleep at night.
2. Have a baby that won’t get any naps during the day and sleep all night.
I’d go for #1 lol
My DS is almost 3weeks old, he gets almost 21/2 ounces during the day and 3 ounces at night.
My bf and I just got into a argument bc our son seems to be awake at night a lot. Idk why but telling me I’m not feeding him 3 ounces at night which I am.
Is it normal for babies to be awake or wanna be up during the night?
I think it’s mainly when he’s just gassy or has to poop but he doesn’t understand that; he thinks baby should just kinda sleep, wake up for bottle then boom sleep..
@coraanne, me and him had a talk today, he said he was sorry he's just tired and that he won't do it again. I understand he's tired but look at me.. and thank you!! my momma is such wonderful help. I love my baby boy so much!! 💙😫😍 I'm so happy he's here now