I know I've been posting stuff about signs of labor and things. Only because I want to see my…

Amen!

Some women can't enjoy it though. I've been on bedrest two weeks and have so many complications. And some times I feel guilty for complaining but our bodies go through so much we have a right to vent and talk about the pain. Not every woman enjoys being pregnant, but it doesn't mean they won't enjoy their baby! (I do enjoy it, but know many that do not)

@jegagurl, I know some people can't because of complications. I understand that. But whenever someone has a normal pregnancy with nothing wrong and you've been trying to do everything to get the baby out since like 35 weeks. And gets horribly mad whenever she goes to a doctors appointment and nothing has changed. But whenever you make complaining 24/7 it gets annoying especially when they have no complications.

@manders13, I agree no one should rush their baby out, they're safest finishing developing in the womb. I just know some people make others feel so guilty for complaining about pain because they say "do you know how many women are struggling to be pregnant, you should be lucky and not ever complain" but in reality it's one of the most difficult things we'll ever go through. I just hope others won't read this and feel bad about posting about pain or problems with pregnancy. Esp on preggie- complain away!

@jegagurl, I hope not. Because honestly this isn't directed towards anyone on here. It's venting about someone I know. The last time I got checked I was 2 1/2cm and 60% effaced. She's 1cm and 75% effaced. She worries so much about herself she doesn't ever care about anyone else. Say that I'm worrying about something to deal with my baby. She's always like it's probably nothing whenever mine is spotting and hers can be just pressure down there and she goes to L&D . Or she thinks I dilated 1cm within a day because I had a yeast infection and got mad because I dilated that fast. It just irks me. Because everyone is different and she just gets jealous. Whenever God thinks you should have your baby. He'll bless you with your baby.

@manders13, that I agree with. I'm never for rushing your baby or comparing your labor and signs to others, only baby and your body knows when it's time. We're just observers :)

Yah I wish they weren't taking my son out so early and i would live for him to come on his own. I originally was planning for a vbac. I had an emergency c section last time when I suddenly went into labor after discovering a twin in the hospital at 24 weeks. I've been high risk this pregnancy because of that. My son this time is growing a little small so they're avoiding distress by taking him out at 37 +6 basically 38 weeks. He will be full term but he will be in the 5 pound range. He is healthy nonetheless and I thank god for giving me the amazing gift of a child and choosing me to be his mother. I don't understand why some women want their babies out so soon and why they'll do anything to kick start labor. Some women also really hate the pregnancy process but me it was amazing the entire time. I've never had morning sickness. I never felt uncomfortable until recently. I held my urine pretty well until recently. I haven't swollen up. My biggest problem was constipation and heartburn which were annoying but I'll take it. My son has behaved so well inside of me I know he's going to be an amazing baby and even if he gives us trouble he's worth it all.

Sorry for the novel 😂

@jegagurl, i felt the same way reading this post... Nothing about my pregnancy has been exciting. Now let me procclaim; happily married, planned pregnancy, we're both 24 with our own house, no drama... We prayed for this baby, very religious... What could go wrong? I have Hyperemesis... Google it, I've thrown up for 30 weeks straight, lost 30 lbs. My kidneys have near failed, i've gotten hospitalized for iv's over 4 times... I am not showing, barely have an appetite... Cry because of constipation... Literally, its the biggest trial god has put us through... But, as for these women who are rushing to induce their labor... Ha, i wish they had 1/2 the pregnancy i do, i actually have a reason to want this over.

Thrown up for 24 weeks straight***