I feel the need to vent since this pregnancy is coming to a end soon. I guess the little things are…
I feel the need to vent since this pregnancy is coming to a end soon.
I guess the little things are getting to me since I've started feeling like this. this morning I'm telling my SO that I've been in pain all night and I feel ill and the only thing he says is " I'm sorry, can you do laundry today?" then he left for work. I've been emotional ever since. He doesn't do anything around the house anymore. He doesn't clean or do anything since I got here. maybe I'm just over reacting, something I tell myself alot. I feel as if I've been tiptoeing around him this entire pregnancy because I know how emotional pregnant women can get so I try to be more understanding of him and his issues and make sure I don't stress him with my emotional state. but that just makes me depressed and angry and all I can do is cry. he asks me why I'm crying and I don't want to explain cause I don't want to ruin his day. what's wrong with me?
mommyslittleman·
Don't cater to him to much. He should be catering to you.
mommyslittleman·
So much*
Jacinda ·
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You shouldn't harbor negative energy girl. You need to let those emotions fly but do it in a sensible way because you don't want to regret it later
Natalie Gallagher·
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@mommyslittleman, I feel like we dropped into this pattern where I just hide everything I feel so it didn't upset him and he just accepts that, when in all honesty I want him to beg me to tell him what's wrong until I finally break down and tell him. but the only time we talk is when he's in the mood to talk other than that if I start a conversation about our issues he just wants to walk away. I have anxiety issues so I struggle with speaking verbally out loud to anyone so when I struggle with my words he walks aways and usually slams a door in my face which makes my anxiety so much worse. him doing things around the house isn't even the tip of the ice burg. I'd talk about my real issues with the things he does but I don't want anyone to judge him to harshly.
Natalie Gallagher·
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@mommyslittleman, sorry I wrote so much, I don't really have any girlfriends lol show me any kind of attention and I'll vent my head off.
Natalie Gallagher·
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@jaixi, I wish I knew how, anytime I open my mouth to talk about our serious issues I stutter and jumble up the things I say and wind up saying the wrong things and can't make my point on the issue.
Jacinda ·
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You have to take your time. Think about what you're saying. Write notes if you have too. You NEED to talk to him. You're not single so you actually don't have to do it by yourself. He has an important role and he needs to know what is going on at all times so he can learn how to adjust just like when the baby comes
mommyslittleman·
You can vent as much as you need to. Feel free to message me if you need to vent about the other things he does... I can't sleep right now and would love to talk.
Natalie Gallagher·
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@mommyslittleman, I messaged you, @jaixi I know, and I try the first thing we need to talk about is how to get around my speaking issues so that we can talk.