Since venting is pretty common on this site, I feel like venting! My husbands sister despises me,…

Baby girl, don't worry. I have the same problem. My boyfriend oldest sister doesn't like me because I'm to nice and preppy for her. We have two different personalities. But that is besides the point. For some odd reason when I met her she was is a rude and loud, not someone i like to be around. And I guess she noticed that. So then she just started being rude and just saying mean stuff to me . But my boyfriend always stood up for me. But the funny thing is when I got pregnant by her brother she started to be nice to me because this is her first niece. I see fake from a mile away so now she's being nice to me I just literally ignore her and just say two words to her and mainly I only say hi or Bye. Sweetie, don't let anybody ever bring you down and be fake or anything, always just basically just be by ur family and that's all that really matters and if she was to come around let her come around on her own time. Just stay strong for your babies and your husband. Trust me you don't want any drama at all. I know for a fact I'm not going to let her see my daughter by herself or babysit her by herself when I'm not around because you never know how people are.

I'm sorry for what you are going through. i also went through the same with my husband's sister during my first preggie. it got to the point where she even threatened me and my child. we have since forgiven eachther after two years but the relationship will never be the same. to me she is like a stranger and i have no doubt she will hurt my child if i am not in her sight so i never leave my child with his family alone. it really sucks when these things happen because you have no control over it. there are just those people with emotional problems who wont like someone for the most dumbest reason.

Be thankful your husband stands up for you. I feel like my husband would pick his mother over me in a heartbeat.

I'm so sorry you're going through that, and I can relate. My SIL and MIL don't like me because my husband chose me over them when we first got together. It's been four years and they still don't like me. I've physically gotten into a fight with his sister. She didn't like the fact that we weren't moving with them, and that we were finding our own place. My MIL has pushed a tv over on me, and I've gotten nasty voice mails where they just sat around and talked shit about me. They have even told my husband that they want nothing to do with him, if he didnt leave me, and changed their minds when he still chose me. They have no regard for anyone but themselves, and I don't want them near my child. My husband was paying his mother's bills when he lived with her (and when we got our first place -_-), and I feel like that's the only thing she wanted from him. He's literally given them money for food, and they spent it all on pot! His sister never pays attention to her son, and leaves her mom to do it (she lives with her mom), and his mom doesn't pay much attention to him either. I know something would happen to my kid, if I left him/her around them. I hope your situation doesn't progress, and good luck. In laws can really be the worst.