what does it mean if I'm having cramps really bad . and in my lower back?

I was the same way @booberry2015 you'll be ok!

okay:) but its also in my lower belly really bad. @kaylareese26

You can still have back labor, it's just contractions in your back instead of your belly, I had them with my last baby and I wasn't dilated either.

but I went to the doctor and I wasn't even dilated yet @kaylareese26

Back labor most likely