Okay so I've recently came to the decision to have a freebirth and I feel so good about this choice like it's meant to be. Honestly the search for a midwife, finding one we like then just to be told they are booked for my due month, weighed such stress on me. Since making this choice that stress is gone and I am really happy- excited to be doing this just myself, partner, and those close to me I allow in the space. I believe with full love in myself and trust my body to be with nature and follow what nature does best.
It's not dumb, I didn't know what it was until I watched a documentary about it in my real early weeks. It is unassisted birth, meaning absolutely no midwife, no doctor, no hospital or any medical attention.
might be a dumb question but what's free birth??? :o
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Exclusively breastfeeding is stressful 😫. I'm so tired all the time but I want to wait to introduce bottles...I need encouragement! This was my goal from the beginning but it's all new to me so I just have to give myself time to adjust right? 😅
so completely stressed out nobody will hire me and my baby still needs so much stuff I just feel like such a failure
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Literally have no friends or pt people to text haha every friend turned their backs on me or just don't get my pregnancy or SO issues and I kudu keep to myself. 🙄
It is solely the individual, the body, and spirit working together to give birth.