Wondering exactly when does having a baby kick in with some dudes. my bf 20, this is his 2nd child ( one outside our relationship ) and he isn't working anymore. And seems like he doesn't want to work because he doesn't want to stop smoking. I literally HATE being pregnant now and really wish I would have seen what I was getting into way before now. He's so dramatic!! like get over yaself! Always talking about how he has Nobody and nobody cares BUT I'm here! and I care! and ppl do Care! he doesn't! he's lazy immature and has a stupid attitude! my baby will be here less than 10wks and everyday now, I have to worry myself about getting money to take care of us when it's his Job! I'm working still, but I barely get any hours and explaining that to my boss is a Waste of breath! I make under 100 dollars with full time hours I hate Waffle house my manager is Inconsiderate and my bf is Stupid! If you don't do anything else, my baby girl should at least come first, I didn't make her on my own! I haven't bought ANYTHING for my baby since I've been pregnant and neither has he. he's done for his other child a few times, but he lost his job (I'm thinking on purpose) and hasn't been doing anything to help out YET. would I be wrong for not wanting him in my child's life? I feel as though you can't and won't provide for her then you won't and can't be in her life. you don't get that title or privilege as a father because you're being everything but her FATHER!!