I need advice please. This is a long and complicated one so please bear with me. I'm from a small…
I need advice please. This is a long and complicated one so please bear with me. I'm from a small town in Bridgeport, NY and I moved down here to Ridgewood, NY (NYC) with my fiancée and then I got pregnant. The doctors down here aren't the best but I did find a really good office that's taking amazing care of me. My family wants me back up home because of the doctors here and since this is my first baby they're concerned. We live with his family down here. They helped us out a lot financially at first but now we are on our feet paying our own bills. Well lately there's been some family drama and certain members are not getting along with others. We all live together so we can afford to live here so if they move Everyone has to move. I don't like dealing with that stress.... At home things are a lot cheaper and I've been trying to talk his family into moving up there it would benefit them so much. But now I don't know. I want what's best for me and my fiancée. Should we wait to move until something happens? We were just going to wait till the baby was born. I love his family, I just don't know what to do...
Emily·
Мама сына-младенца
That's a hard decision but honestly it would be a lot easier to move before the baby just from my experience. We moved a month before Patrick and I was so happy because I had everything ready and I felt more organized and also it's very exhausting the first two months of their life.
Rita·
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As dumb as it sounds I haven't even thought about that... Plus a 6 hour car ride with a newborn doesn't sound fun come to think of it. Thank you so much
Cassandre·
Мама дочки-младенца
um no you and your fiance move for YOU and do what's best for YOU. don't wait for shit to hit the fan and then move cause that's too much stress and you'll be further along which will leave you miserable. Everyone else is getting the same opportunity just like you to be able to move. besides I know the longer you wait and further along you are some obgyn offices stop taking you in because they like to work with you for awhile (especially if you want a midwife or something) so keep that in mind
Rita·
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I know I sound silly @ce5ce I've just never been good at these things. I just don't wanna hurt his family they're so excited to see this baby.
Cassandre·
Мама дочки-младенца
no honey it's okay that's why sometimes advice is needed but as excited as they are a baby is expensive so you need to cut corners with savings as much as possible so you have to do what's best for your family. you cab send lots of pictures