How do first time moms get past all the worrying!! I'm a FTM, 16w5d with one miscarriage before this pregnancy. I don't feel the baby moving yet which I know can be in a few weeks. I thought I felt flutters the other day but I think it was just gas. I just get so worried sometimes. How do other people find ease?
Why can't other mom's just be there for other mom's and work together and help each other not bash other mom's because when other mom's bash other mom's it makes us feel like we aren't doing a good job at least that's how I feel when I get bashed.
I wanna get to know you ladies better ! :) so what's everyone's names, how old are you, what do you do for work, and how many kiddos do you have?! Share if you want :) I'm just curious is all.
What are y'all thoughts of boys circumcision? I know my son getting it, gotta keep infections away, but how do other mothers feel about it,?
*I'm just looking for others perspectives* I want to have my son circumcised, my husband who is uncircumcised does not want our son to get the procedure. I don't know much about the difference because I'm a woman, we don't have a religious preference to do it, just I'm just curious about what others plan on doing for their son!
So My coworker does not get vaccinated for anything due to religious practices and she’s worried about our job making it mandatory since they discussed it earlier this week. It’s crazy how when vaccines even started or came about we were told it would be voluntary but now it’s mandatory and people need a verification card to go certain places. We even have certain states doing lottery drawings just to make people get it. people shouldn’t fear losing their jobs or having to go against their religious beliefs when we were told it was voluntary. I think this is wrong that companies are doing this.
Samantha·
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personally me, I forced myself to stop worrying and putting my faith in God. tbh, this may may sound weird to you but I noticed that when I did that I started feeling baby flutters that same day. worrying so much isn't good for you or the baby, just let what you can't control out of your hands. I think that's what helped the most, but maybe I'm crazy.
Dana·
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I bought a Doppler for early on. Settled my mind!
Andrea·
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (19 нед.)
I have a 6 year old. Had a miscarriage in jan of this year but now I'm 19 weeks today. Sorry to tell you but the fear never goes away😔😕 I bought a Doppler so I can hear the baby heart beat at home and that helps me a lot although in the beginning it is hard to find so I would still panic. Stay positive. Try not to worry so much. Remember The baby feels everything you feel.
Ashley·
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I felt the same way, but I realized stressing is no good for me. And definitely no good for the baby. I didn't feel any movements until 28 weeks.
Sarah·
Thanks everyone!! I'm starting to feel a little better. I friend suggested talking to the baby. I took a walk and had a little conversation and now I feel better. ❤️