My baby daddy wasn't very involved in the Pregnancy stage, and now that our son is born he never wants to spend time with him. He seems like our son is a burden to him :'( I seriously can't handle it. How am I suppose to love him when he can't show our son love and affection.
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at this point I am so over the whole situation at this point
@coraanne, I sent him a very long text last night and once he read it he said he was sorry and he will try harder. I can except at least a try :) @sexychocolate I'm sorry that is a bummer... I totally understand how you feel. I would try maybe getting him to rub your tummy and start off with small things to see if he starts bonding.... BUT I tried that my whole Pregnancy and it didn't work for me. I hope he gets involved for you sake.
my bd already has a daugther so this experience is not new to him@coraanne
I'm sorry momma, have you talked to him about it?
@coraanne, I am trying to give him time, but it's hurting me in the process. This sucks because I feel alone.
@sexychocolate, same for you too... If you both have decent men it might just take a bit for reality to set in for them.
Give him a little time, he may not know how to express how he feels with a brand new baby.... it's all new to him too. BUT if it continues for awhile , I'd give him a reality check.
I think I have been too nice...ugh hopefully he gets his shit together or he might lose us :'( @sexychocolate I sure hope I can figure it out.
Going through the samething except I am still pregnant. When you figure it out let me know. 😳
awe I am sorry :'(