I see people getting engaged and married and everything and only been together for a short amount of time , I was with the same guy 5 years and it was not even mentioned !
@millerjessicar1997, I don't plan on getting back with him but the hard thing is with us just recently breaking up and of course love is stl there and if our child don't come this week she will be here for sure next week and seeing him is just going to make it hard to avoid because together or not he has the verge of still kissing my fore head and still holding me like I'm his
@millerjessicar1997, we just recently broke up but after all those years not once was it mentioned
@caseclosed2015, I get what you saying exactly and I mean it could have still been mentioned I wouldn't want a ring anyways cause that's a lot of money that can be spent on the kids , just bringing it up at least idk
5 years in an accomplishment @lovelytee it also means that what u have is real. A ring is nice to have but not if ur just gonna get divorced a year or two later. Dont feel weird @doublezmommy My grandparents were together 30 years before my grandfather passed away and they were never married. My best friend is 38yo and has been married and divorced 3 times already....
@millerjessicar1997, makes me jealous .. But congratulations
it's just so weird , it kind of makes me feel like I ain't worth shit
I said the same thing earlier I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and no thought of it.

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Yes girl.... I mean I don't know your situation but I completely understand from what your saying.. but um why rnt y'all together? ????? if y'all still love each other...?