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Please no judging My boyfriend has his medical card so he smokes all the time lately he's been trying to get me to smoke…

Please no judging

My boyfriend has his medical card so he smokes all the time lately he's been trying to get me to smoke with him since i'm not pregnant nor breastfeeding anymore (before baby i smoked) apart of me wants to smoke with him and i feel like a horrible mother because of it.. Another part of doesn't want to do that around my baby ..will it hurt her? will she know ? 😫

How do you mommies and soon to be mommies feel about it ?

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vinnysmomma

Hannah Alexandria

В ожидании первенца

Yes I'm 21 weeks. I cut back drastically for a while while in the early developmental stages, and I saw it was doing no harm to us, and I started smoking every day again. I figured it was better to smoke and eat than to do neither. Also, I don't think the smell could harm baby, but it totally wouldn't get to change shirts and wash your hands before touching LO 😊

wyatts_mommy_0106

Krystin

Мама двоих (младенец)

if you aren't pregnant anymore than wait until your baby goes to sleep and y'all go.out to a porch and if u wanna smoke then smoke and then when u get done wash your hands and change your shirt. I started smoking the day me and my son came home from the hospital and I only smoke outside my house while my son is sleeping there is no way of them knowing since they are babies

islandftm

Honey

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this is a touchy subject. you could wear cotton panties and be caked a bad mother. I suggest you research it and the effects and see what could possibly, worst case scenario happen n see if you're ok dealing with the consequences. I myself see a pregnant woman n I'm kinda skeptical however I've never been a smoker

alex1azariyah2

Anqelaa Mariee Velasquez

Мама сына (3 года), беременна (37 нед.)

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alex1azariyah2

Anqelaa Mariee Velasquez

Мама сына (3 года), беременна (37 нед.)

weed doesnt affect pregnancy my son is healthy... he has a really open mind 😱 i only smoke in the beginning of my first pregnancy not in the end cause they check u at the hospital... i ddnt want them to take him away ... im not smoking during this one cause my bf doesnt let me he wants her to be calm... he doesnt want our daughter to be like our son xD all active n shit... :) hes a happy baby :)

but yeah i smoked alot after my son it ddnt affects him... just dont smoke near him...

mommy2b2016

Hali

В ожидании первенца

If I wasn't gonna breast feed I'd light up so fast!

firstbaby_girl

Jenna

Мама дочки-младенца

you do what you think is right for your babys health

mommy1990

Shanna Marie

Мама подростка

indiana and I'll freak if they show up...

mommy1990

Shanna Marie

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me2. luckily alex is doing well and I was able to stop b4 shit got serious...but honestly I don't understand the big deal about pot what about heroin, meth, crack that's alot worse...no record of a baby dying from pot...and in the bathroom or by window but he's stopped because he felt bad because I couldnt...

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I don't think it makes u a bad mom at all. just not in the same area as baby !

teeanna

teeanna

Мама дочки-младенца

My doctor didn't drug test me at all i was a heavy smoker before i found out i was prego.. A friend if mines doctor tested her she failed and cps came to the hospital to talk to her when baby was born just a heads up idk where u live and if things are the same. Does he smoke in the house around you? @mommy1990

mommy1990

Shanna Marie

Мама подростка

I smoked b4 I knew I was pregnant...and we'll let's just say first 3 dr apt couldn't pass drug test and they threatened to call cps on me. I liked it cuz it helped me being sick and all but once I knew I was pregnant I stopped but my fiancé kept smoking hint why couldn't pass ..but honestly I would die to smoke right now in so much pain

teeanna

teeanna

Мама дочки-младенца

Are you pregnant smoking? I was so scared to smoke when i was prego i did once (just one tinny hit) and i was so paranoid i cried lol @mommabear2015 do you know if the smell from clothes could effect baby? @quishana

quishana

quishana

u can smoke just not around the bby... it's ur choice 2 smoke or not cus I caint wait 2 have a glass of wine lol... but yea not around the bby go outside n smoke

vinnysmomma

Hannah Alexandria

В ожидании первенца

I smoke daily (one bowl) and I have for years. In my case baby and I are healthy and it helps ease sickness and pains. As for when I bf, I'm not sure if I'll continues to smoke. Or even if I'll smoke throughout my whole pregnancy. I guess I'll cross that bridge when the time comes. I'd say in your case, maybe take a few hits when baby's sleeping and see how you feel? In no way would baby know, nor would you be a bad mother!!

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

I feel so disrespected, as you can see I asked my mother not to smoke tomorrow, being that she will be at the hospital…

I feel so disrespected, as you can see I asked my mother not to smoke tomorrow, being that she will be at the hospital as in being induced and until I actually have the baby. I don't want her covered in cigarette smoke around me and my newborn child. And DAMN sure don't want her holding him if she's going to smoke. It's pretty selfish of her to not just say okay and respect my wishes, in my opinion. It's just crazy to me how she'll talk about not being addicted to smoking and that she could go without it, yet clearly isn't planning on doing so on such an important day. #RANTOVER