This is partially the reason i dumped his ass.. Also because he became aggressive. I hope he changes his colours for you xxx

@winterbaby95, ive told him about wasting money. and he already has a 4 year old daughter from a previous relationship. @jadecarter my boyfriend is the same i hate him drinking it makes me feel sick and if we end up going out to dinner anywhere. he is certain to get drunk and end up on drugs if they are available. I actually told him last saturday that i wanted a break until hed sorted himself out coz if this pregnancy all ends up well i dont want a child in an enviroment with drink and drugs xxx

the other reason why i hate him out on weekends is because he is a social cocaine user. thats why i dont go out with him is because i dont take it. whenever he takes me out anywhere its for his own benefit. to drink or to end up taking drugs with one of his closest friends. @oweatherby he is not very handy around the house. it took him 3 months to eventually put a picture up in my bathroom. i just dont know what to do to give him a kick up the backside xx

@missceh,

You can't ask him to responsible for things he never seen/felt) you are only 7 weeks pregnant and for him it's just a thing you saying... other thing is what type of relationships you have and how close you both are x you definitely have a rights to be loved and respected and its hurts when your partner prefers outgoings, when he could stay with you..

You are emotional and vulnerable now and you could explain him how do you feel... he might change his attitude when he will see your baby on a scan day or when he will feel baby's movements.

for now keep him busy on weekends... make him decorate a house or make plans for weekend, go to see parents/ friends... xxx

Why don't you 2 do something like go out for dinner then he has no reason to go out partying 😊 I hate my boyfriend drinking he acts like a total idiot & doesn't know when to stop! he's so irresponsible when I'm not with him 😩 xxxo

Hey, I only get to see my boyfriend at the weekends. He should at least make time for you but he is entitled to go out whenever he wants :) :) You need to just make it clear to him that when the baby has arrived he should prioritise his son/daughter. He will need to learn to make some sacrifices :) He will need to take responsibilty very soon for things around the house. Maybe just tell him he can still drink but he has to limit himself and I think it is kinda silly to waste money on drink when you can be saving it for stuff for the baby :) I think some men are clueless about pregnancy/children xD @missceh