Okay so , I always need to take care of my niece without anyone saying" hey I'm going out can you…

You need to say something. They will just keep taking advantage of you if you don't.

I would say something to them that is not right

@tmoschetti06, your right but , I actually live with my mother in law I don't want to tell them something and , them get offend then them kick me out and my husband says something to his sister saying to start paying me and all she says is when she gets paid she'll pay me she already got paid and no money .. and when she does remember she only pays me $10 when I took her of her daughter for a week .

@reaganmommy2015, yeah just afraid their going to kick me out and I don't really want to go back with my mom because , my husband won't go and then wasting gas for him just to see his daughter.

That is different if your living in their house maybe when they ask if if your busy day your going out and don't know when you be back. My brother and sister in law do that to my mom and she is afraid of she says something they will offended and not bring the kids over mind you one of the kids is hadicapped and my mom has trouble with her (my niece has spinal bifada and she is 11 and she still wears diapers and unable to walk)

I did the same thing after taking my sister and my niece in after them being kicked out and finally my bf put his foot down cuz I couldn't do it...being pregnant and having a 1year old and then watching my 5 year old niece took to much out of me but I get it and that sucks....I would try to talk to ur sister and just explain how hard it is....

@reaganmommy2015, I'm sorry of hearing that , that wouldn't be so easy I'm going to have a talk with my husband and tell him if we can sit down with his sister and talk to her because at the end of the day I'm exhausted ..

@ambiibambii, yeah, it is hard very tiring I'm exhausted can't do this anymore my husband comes home and doesn't help with my 2 year old daughter and he tells me I don't do anything well, I tell him exhausted taking care of your niece getting up is hard my feet hurt I just can't take it anymore ..

@motheroftwo22, yes I would do that make sure your husband is there for that as well as he needs to stand up for you maybe try and tell them that as you get farther along its harder for you and you can't do it hopefully it works out for you

@reaganmommy2015, thank you so much for giving me some advise really helped . 😊

@motheroftwo22, Brittany, put your foot down. they always use you. Tell Zeke that you don't want to take care of Adaline. Pregnancy is hard especially if you are taking care of another mother's baby. You need to be resting and taking care of June. That's your responsibility.

@mamabear01, I know , Zeke tells his sister to pay me its just she always says she doesn't have any money right now and he says well , when you get some .. but , when she gets paid she only gives me $10 .

@motheroftwo22, stop taking care of her. Your pregnant. you need your space... your husband's family is heartless and they don't care. Don't be doing favors for people like that. your waisting your time