I'm 37 weeks, and can't get over my moms reaction to when My bf and I told her I was pregnant... She…

let her know how you feel

Tell her how you feel.

I do all the time, but we can't talk more then 5 minutes without an argument @sheneque1990

@nadiasommers, ^^^

I know same thing with my mom !😒 it will get better

@ahxiomara because she know its wrong that's why

My mom is the same way every time she looks at me I see disappointment in her eyes she refuses to go to any of my doctors visit and when I made her listen to the baby's heartbeat she was just like oh cool I'm 20 years old and was engaged to the father of my child I just wish she understood how much it hurts when she acts that way

@california12632, @sheneque1990 @brandylemonds15 see but what makes it worse is she was pregnant at 15 married at 18, yet not only does she judge us as her daughters but other youngs mom as well... It pisses me off

My mom was 14 when she had me and married at 16 , sometimes I think it's because she always thought it would be my little sister who got pregnant not me ,but In my situation her support would mean so much to me right now

I also got pregnant at 18 and am now 19 and my mom cried too when we shared the news with her and I know she was disappointed in me at first but she always told me and my sister that she wouldn't and couldn't down talk us or judge because she got pregnant young too. I think once your mom sees the baby when he's born she'll be genuinely happy for you

My mum was PISSED when I told her I was pregnant. I was 20. TWENTY years old and she still made an appointment at an abortion clinic for me behind my back. I was a year younger than she was when she had me but she thought it was awful I was having a kid. Then I had my son and she loves him!!!....... When it makes her look good. She loves telling people she "always" watches her grandson. (It's a bunch of bullshit). I told her about my last pregnancy and she flipped out on me, and I swear she was happy I miscarried. Then when I told her I was pregnant again she had her hissy fit & basically told me "there's still time for an abortion" and "I'm not going to love that kid like I love aarem (my first born)." Chances are when this baby comes she'll turn around but I HATE that kind of shit.

My parents have been the same way. I had my twins at 19. I'm pregnant now at 28 and it's the same crap. You can't live for them. They have to deal with their own issues and you just move forward and love your baby. My mom is in for a rude awakening if she thinks my baby is going to be anywhere near her after she's born. I made that mistake with my twins because I didn't know any better. This time, she doesn't deserve my baby's love and attention.

@brandylemonds15, hmmm is your sister the preferred child ! @rr082015 ehh she really doesn't care she pretends to be happy for us, she would take care of my nieces and nephews put on fb that she bought them a pool all happy and afterwards bitched about spending that money

When I told my mom I was pregnant she was also disappointed not cause of my age I just turned 35 but because my husband a few months prior cheated on me but I'm not the kind of person that believes in abortion so I decided to keep it which my mom was kind of mad but as the months went by she said that it's not the baby fault that her daddy did what he did but she still doesn't like my husband but that will take awhile for her to forgive but she is now very excited about the baby

I'm 23 was 22 when I found out and my mom was beyond disappointed because she feels like I'm doing the same thing she did (had me at 22) and she wasn't ready , feels that I'm not ready and haven't completed my own goals . she's starting to come around but for months she wouldn't accept it and yeah I can't talk to my mom either without an argument . it hurts because we used to be so close 😢😢 it will get better ! &&dont; hate yur mom it will get better

@Kim berlyyyy, she's always bragging about her grandchildren ( 10 including mine ) to people or fb but she talks so much crab about doing a think for them @queeneden My dad is Salvadorian and they are strict as hell, &&& it seems like he's happier for me than my mom... I'm just GLADy bfs family is anxious for his arrival and will have a grandma who will truly love him and do anything for him!!

@ahxiomara, no not that she's preferred but she's the wild one I've always been the mature responsible one

thats how it is at first my dad was disappointed at me in the beginning didnt talk to me or anything...but he had a right to be i was only 13 but yeah after a couple weeks he felt better n started buying me food n he was interested in the baby..., now he loves my son alot xD my son is with him 24/7

well hes with me 24/7 but once he gets out of work my son goes to him lol