That is a great idea @jesslynn I'm gonna find a list tonight and have him go shopping with me this weekend to get the MUST HAVES!

Maybe show him some hospital packing lists from the Internet? Show him that you NEED to have some things.

It is very stressful @jesslynn he had me pack a hospital bag today. And I was like okay, but what about the baby we don't have anything for the baby. He told me not to worry about it that we will have things for the baby.

I understand why your husband is acting that way. He's scared of something going wrong. I get that. I was kind of like that too. However some kind of middle ground needs to be found. Being 34 weeks and not having anything is very stressful. Tell him you understand his concerns but you all have to get some things.

just don't involve him in it.

Yes he goes to every OB apt. With me and they tell him that the baby is healthy, and that he needs to stop thinking so negative.

just do what you want

When jazzlyn was six months old and I got pregnant and ended up having a miscarriage at 15 weeks. My husband took it really hard. And he's scared

I'm so sorry to hear that... At least you have one outfit but that's obviously still not even close to enough... Does he go to your OB doctor appointments with you? If so might bring it up to your doctor you have like absolutely nothing and he won't budge... Because any Dr that hears that will say wow wait a min... And maybe talk some sense into him on how soon this baby will be there and he should get his ass in gear.. Idk just a suggestion... I'm sorry to hear about your situation

He always thinks negative. I hate it. I have one outfit for the baby. Other than that we don't have an infant car seat or anything the baby needs. I do have a crib it's our daughters old crib. My family won't talk to me. They disowned me

I've never heard of someone saying something like that... The death of a child should be the last thing on someone's mind.. 😐

I'm sorry to say Hun.... But that's a completely unorthodox and crazy way of thinking on his part. So you mean to tell me you guys have NOTHING for the baby? And he's going to go out the day/night this child is born and buy everything? What planet is he on... Good lord. I don't blame you for feeling emotional about this. Is there any family you can talk to about this? If you do have nearby family or friends ask one of them to set you up a small get together.. Even if it's only a couple or a few people, it will help and make you feel better. But as for him... Just based on what you said he sounds very controlling...

Uhhhh what!? 😳 omg!! That's rude, you could pop at any time. Omg so sorry mama!!❤️

That's what I've been telling him, he tells me that our house doesn't need to be filled with baby clutter right now, I just want to have some stuff for the baby since we sold all the stuff jazzlyn had when she was a baby. He tells me that something could go wrong and the baby could die and doesn't want me to be surrounded by infant things. He told me he would get things the night the baby is born.

Uh he is gonna regret that considering how far along you are and that baby can come at any time... It's really hard trying to get up everything at the last min... I would remind him that when you hit 36 weeks baby could technically come any day the baby is gonna need clothes and Atleast a car seat to come home in...

@nadiasommers your 34 weeks ????? what does he want you to wait for before you start buying things.... for you to have the baby? that's crazy .

I live in a small town called Farmington, fort Madison is 15 miles away from me and all they have is a shopko the biggest city close by is an hr. Away and he doesn't like me going anywhere without him. I can only stay in Farmington

That's mean. I would be like I invite my family to the baby shower then lol I am sassy though when it comes to being told no about my baby

And me being 34 weeks I'm so emotional

What I would start buying it's time

That's mean of him to say...sorry dear