They wouldn't do the scan because I'm only 18 weeks so now he can't go and I lost my grandmas ring.…

Was it your second trimester anatomy scan?

Yeah, apparently my hospital doesn't do them until 20 weeks. @danamarie

I think that makes sense since some of the anatomy isn't developed enough to look at - my hospital was the same way. Sucky they didn't tell you ahead of time!! Sorry to hear you had a shitty day too. That was my day yesterday 😔

Well today was my four week check up. I asked my doctor at my last appointment and he said at 20 weeks is when they do them. So I asked him today so my boyfriend could be there and he said that was fine, when they called to schedule they said it was too early and they only do them between 20-22 weeks. Now my boyfriend can't go. :/ @danamarie

😢😢😢😢👎🏼

I'm just upset because I really wanted him to be there. I had my 13 week one by myself because my mom had to leave and then at the small ones they do at the hospital when I've gone to the ER he didn't really get excited. @danamarie

I think it's hard for others to get excited. My fiancé has gone a few times and he's been dying for kids and he doesn't go crazy during them. But I understand having someone there with you and him so he can be a part of the pregnancy. It sucks going alone.

It really does. I hope he can go but it's in the middle of the work day and with him being suspended right now because of stupid stuff we need all the money we can get. His pay check is only going to be like 40$ next week. @danamarie