I couldn't sleep it's 6:20am I only slept like 2 hrs ....I'm so confused ! and can't ask for no…
I couldn't sleep it's 6:20am I only slept like 2 hrs ....I'm so confused ! and can't ask for no one's opinion in my family.so last night while my husband slept I got an itch to go through his phone ...because I felt something was wrong ... and sure enough he been communicating with an ex that has been in and out of his life and one of my headaches for years!.....I haven't told him ....because we been off and on for 17 yrs already been through everything and this time around its been a great year I never had doubt about us anymore until now! not very crushed cause I've been through worse. ...Just disappointed ....I fell like it's been a waste of time and our kids time if he still playing games! @31yrs old! any advice. ? I hate to leave all over again with another baby on the way! but I'm also not the type to be fooled and be ok.....I felt like making a big scene before he left to work right now but I kept it koo....Just confused on what action to take! HELP!?
mommy3rmz·
Мама троих детей
how does he react mama that's what I always think see my husband is scandalous And we need up yelling and saying the worst so I rather ask him like a question n talk it out seems to help much more but I think u should ask him why is he doing it to me it seems like men decide to do things they aren't specially when us girls r pregnant they become jerks but u should stand ur ground and if he don't like it then that's when u decide for u n baby ❤ I do bole everything comes out OK for u hun
mimi713·
thanks!@mommy3rmz
I've just back and for from him to my mom's for years already and so tired of that life we have 3 kids...and I don't feel like doing that ...ugh it's hard ...I have to decide what I'm going to say and choose my words right...he needs to understand there are no more chances I've been over games years ago and don't feel like going through this again. ... thanks
brittany·
В ожидании первенца
Sigh. Girl we all go through it. There is so much science and stuff to prove why men are assholes and cant be faithful but i think at the end of the day they cant think with their minds only their dicks. I say, decide what life you want. Then talk openly and honestly. Most men like testing the forbidden fruits so something about the relationship with his ex makes him keep going back
mommy3rmz·
Мама троих детей
@mimi713, this weekend I felt like this girl my husband also being an asshole n I also have 3 kids but j told him straight up u needed to choose I ain't playing games I told him me or ur freedom think about it tell me tomorrow well he came back acting like normal why? because men know what they have. at home they know best that they will love the love we have moove on n never come back we r young n beautiful we can still find someone to appreciate us but them ? they will have women but they will never have the women who will love them the way we did just keep in mind our children will always be first I rather be alone with 3 kids n them see me happy them with hi. n 3 kids always seeing us fight
ana·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
I say try to talk it out....ask him why are they still in contact what are his plans as far as communicating with his ex....let him know how you feel about it and how you not comfortable with him talking to her....or you can do my asshole move.....I would play reverse psychology I'll tell him 1 off my ex contacted me and feed into the conversation when his really mad and giving you decision to make or threatening to leave then you tell hi yup that exactly how I felt when I seen that you and your ex been texting.....see how my shoes hurt....
mimi713·
all you ladies have a point that's for the great advice ladies! I'm going to let him know and tell him he has a choice to make.... because we aren't getting any younger I do have an ex also who would love to see me free so he is just playing with fire but that's not the life I want ....no more games....I need real or nothing I'd rather be alone!
I just feel like if you have the need to cheat be single why be in a relationship. ...