It makes me sad sometimes to see the grandpas being a grandpa to kids because my dad was never really a dad to me, and he doesn't play with my kids it's rare if he will read a book to my oldest, he barely even held my kids. My moms boyfriend of 3yrs acts more like a grandpa and calls himself Papi with pride. I'm glad to see there are grandpas out there that aren't this way though because I wish my kids had half the grandpa as most.
@jomommaclark, I know I think the worst part is he has lied for so long he believes it and to know your parents had lied for that long to you is even worse
people say shit to make them feel better about themselves even if they are not true.
Him and his wife haven't slept in the same room for years, I have just come to realize he just isn't good at relationships @jomommaclark it just makes me sad because he constantly talks crap about my real mom saying she never wanted me yet I have only gotten that vibe from him in my life @jomommaclark
My dad has never taken us anywhere we never did anything as a family, like anytime we went to parks or sixflags never came, my dad doesn't do dishes, doesn't cook, doesn't go to the grocery store, he won't do anything, yet he wants to complain about people... But be acts more like a dad to my half sister who him and his new wife had when I was 4.
My kids ask about my dad all the time but he's too busy with his own life like he was when I was a kid.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I am so stressed right now!!!
My OB doesn’t want to take me anymore because I am too “high risk” so I got a new one they don’t want to see me either. They referred me to a group one hour way from my house. But there is only one high risk dr and he doesn’t know if he could see me.
I feel like I should not see any at this point.

Does anyone else see a faint line? My husband is pretty much calling me stupid because I see it

Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
I'll never speak down about my kids dad to my kids. It bothers me when I hear people do that. I know hes a POS but that's my kids dad, they dont see how bad he is right now. When they are old enough they'll see who he truly was.
yup this is where you get to be the adult and have your own opinion