It makes me sad sometimes to see the grandpas being a grandpa to kids because my dad was never really a dad to me, and he doesn't play with my kids it's rare if he will read a book to my oldest, he barely even held my kids. My moms boyfriend of 3yrs acts more like a grandpa and calls himself Papi with pride. I'm glad to see there are grandpas out there that aren't this way though because I wish my kids had half the grandpa as most.