It makes me sad sometimes to see the grandpas being a grandpa to kids because my dad was never really a dad to me, and he doesn't play with my kids it's rare if he will read a book to my oldest, he barely even held my kids. My moms boyfriend of 3yrs acts more like a grandpa and calls himself Papi with pride. I'm glad to see there are grandpas out there that aren't this way though because I wish my kids had half the grandpa as most.
@jomommaclark, I know I think the worst part is he has lied for so long he believes it and to know your parents had lied for that long to you is even worse
people say shit to make them feel better about themselves even if they are not true.
Him and his wife haven't slept in the same room for years, I have just come to realize he just isn't good at relationships @jomommaclark it just makes me sad because he constantly talks crap about my real mom saying she never wanted me yet I have only gotten that vibe from him in my life @jomommaclark
My dad has never taken us anywhere we never did anything as a family, like anytime we went to parks or sixflags never came, my dad doesn't do dishes, doesn't cook, doesn't go to the grocery store, he won't do anything, yet he wants to complain about people... But be acts more like a dad to my half sister who him and his new wife had when I was 4.
yup this is where you get to be the adult and have your own opinion