So my step mother went through my father's phone this morning and decided that I wasn't allowed to live here anymore. Not only am I 9 months pregnant, I have no where to go until the baby is born. All because I had one day where I expressed my emotions.
I could just go up to Pa now. We have the house just renting it until I deliver (throwing unneeded money at it more like it) but all my doctors are here and my family and the father, it'd be unfair to take that away from them. My mother can't just take off to Pa to be there with me when I have the baby.
@adrienneerinne27, I'm sry this is happening to you & your baby...you both deserve better than that. I hope everything works out you're in my prayers!
@lp1988727, I'm moving to Canonsburg, close to Pittsburgh. And she is but we have to work with her landlord. She is only zoned for one person to live in her place at a time.
@elenaj, thank you! I am just trying to move forward. I had my maternity pictures done today so that distracted me some but now I'm freaking out and packing my stuff. Izabelle is confused and I want to cry every time I look at her so I'm hiding in my room.
@Lisann0721, I wish it was that easy. My father and I didn't really have much of a relationship until a few years ago. I grew up with him sorta but he wasn't around very much and he was a bad man. He grew up and she was there to help him. She isn't bad all the time but it's not a perfect situation. @anqiee323 I've tried but he won't talk back
@lp1988727, she wouldn't let me get one word in and I didn't do anything to her other than say that everyone in the house could stand to pick up after themselves. It's honestly a huge overreaction. Especially considering everything I do around the house. I am in contact with the father but we can stand to be in the same room with each other. I got a hold of my mother and she is going to help. I have a place after the baby is born. It is just in another state. I'm buying a house with my best friend in PA, signing he papers in a couple of weeks. But I have to deliver here. @elanaj I have other places I can stay lucky but leaving my ten year old sister behind is going to be so hard and all of my things are here. I live in the country. It's not like I can stop by on the way to the hospital when I am in labor. I am so lost on what my next step is. The doctor said I could go into labor anyway and with this added stress I'm worried it's going to happen too soon.
@adrienneerinne27, Don't let her push you out...you were there before she was. She's not your mother so she has no right to tell your dad how to parent or what to do with you. You might also bring up the fact that your about to have his grandchild! I'm sry you got stuck with one of the bad stepmoms!
Wow . Sorry to hear that . Check out shelters in your area . Is the baby's father around ?
@lp1988727, The only reason I am here is to take care of my younger sister and now she is going to come home to an empty house everyday. My dad won't talk to me. So I have a feeling he is stepping out of this one.
what a great father... 😒 parents should always pit their kids first..