Ok mommies I have a question. How would you feel if someone you are friends with that gave birth a week after you gave birth to your baby kept posting pictures of her kids five minutes after you did with the exact same wording you used? I have a friend that gave birth to her twin boys exactly a week after my son was born that keeps doing this shit. I honestly don't know why either. I feel like she's jealous that people other than family like the pictures of my son. I can't help it if someone likes my pictures over hers since I'm not that person. It's really getting on my nerves but I'm trying to be the bigger person about it and ignore her. Oh and to add on every time my son has something wrong magically one of her twins has the exact same thing wrong with them. There is a lot more than this that's been happening but I'm not gonna put it on here. I don't normally complain about these kind of things but I'm done with the whole my kids are better than your kid with someone I've helped out when I needed help myself.
@mommyofaking, right? it's stupid. I really don't understand why its a competition.
Some one did that to me they erk my damn nerves!!!
@amber.s95, that's how I feel but I keep my mouth shut. she doesn't see how blessed she is to get help with her boys. I have to pay to have someone watch my son or take my son with me which is hard when I'm trying to find a job and start school.
It sounds like shes trying to one up you or something. She must be jealous of you which is kinda ridiculous. She should probably be focused on taking care of her kids and not trying to out do you.
@mssjudyk, I don't know... I'm just done with crap like this. I'm not in high school anymore. I'm an adult and a mother. I grew up and it seems like she hasn't. Maybe she will stop when she grows up who knows.
ah ok. i see. ..
I would have probably joked about it to see what she says...
maybe she just looks up to you and loves everything u have to say!
@mssjudyk, I have not. I'm trying to not start a fight. It could be because she's younger than me, but I don't know. I have told her that I'm not gonna hang out with her or offer to take her and her boys somewhere and pay for them anymore since she always has something come up but five minutes later post she wants to hang out with someone because she's so bored. I get the picture.
same happens to me but i dnt really care
I need to ask someone this have you literally regret having a child with someone. I love my daughter with all my heart but I really regret ever being with her dad.
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?

This is my son Walter. Today is his birthday. He would have been five. This picture was taken when he was 16 days old. He was my first child and my only son (I now have 3 girls). He passed away the next day after this picture from congenital heart failure. It was a miracle that he lived passed 12 weeks gestation because of how severe his heart defects were. I miss him so much, I can't believe it's been 5 years. It still hurts so bad. I don't talk about him a lot out loud because I end up bawling...
God and the Universe... *update
After having a near perfect pregnancy how could you take my baby from me? Exactly two weeks shy of my due date, you decided you needed her more than her parents did. Now I have to try and keep calm during this induction process only to give birth to a sleeping angel and go home empty handed with no explanation of why this happened. I just don't understand how this is fair...
Due date
How likely are you to actually give birth on your due date, especially with your first kid? I don't want him to come on his exact due date because I don't want him to share a birthday with a certain someone.
She's insecure that all. Both of them!! ( my situation & yours) just keep doing what u doing. She must be wondering how u do u do it without help! Fuck em! After awhile I took it as a compliment ☺️