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Cassandra
Cassandra
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (35 нед.)

Need to vent. So we were suppose to go on a trip this weekend to Ohio which my SO family but we decided not to go. We…

Need to vent. So we were suppose to go on a trip this weekend to Ohio which my SO family but we decided not to go. We don't feel that we should spend money on the trip since we're in the process of moving, buying what else we need for the baby and having to buy school stuff for our son. Well his sister gets mad because we're not going and can't understand that we don't want to be wasteful with our money. She has it in her head that we somehow said if we do t go she can take our son. Never told her she could if it was 8 hours away I wouldn't have a problem with him going, but I don't want him that far without at least one of his parents. Am I wrong to feel pissed of that she's mad and can't understand our reason for not going? She also can't afford to go but she's going even if it will put her behind on all her bills and everything

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braylinsmommy

brenea

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your not wrong at all its called prioritis

jjbutton

Jessica

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I agree with @quansmommy! It's your family, your decisions. Part of being an adult is sacrificing vacations to make sound decisions for your family.

mizztemper

Cassandra

Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (35 нед.)

Thank you ladies. She does this almost every time and then she's always asking her brothers for money because she doesn't prioritize

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