I say no I lost my first daughter last sep and give a look like keep it there and keep it cute .... I just recently got comfortable talking about it though so when you're ready you'll know what to say

@dallasdawn13, that is so true

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yes he was. but the little time I had with him makes ma appreciate being a mom more because I know at any time something bad can happen @armywifemk

@dallasdawn13, omg so tiny

I liked it too. y'all are definitely some strong mommas!

thank you @armywifemk those were his actual size feet he was under a pound when born

@dallasdawn13, I like that

I like that answer @mssjudyk

My sister always said no, I have a baby Angel looking down on me. However, this is my first in many other ways

thanks for you responses I've just always been so confused because technically it's the truth either way my first son pass away after 20 days yes he was my first but he never left the hospital or anything. so Its a new experience with the 1 1/2 year but still not my first. I just never knew what to tell people or what other people said @babynorwick @armywifemk

at least that's how I feel.

I lost my first and I say the same thing. unless it's a doctor or something like that. the most important people to me know and know that I love my angel. and my angel knows I love him. as long as you know you love your son and your son knows up above that he is loved down here nothing matters.

I feel the same way. I lost my son who was almost two 5 years this September and now I used to say no but felt so guilty so now I tell people something like no they have a big brother looking down on them