I don't understand I apply for welfare so me and my husband can start taking care of our kids financially on our own with out my parents help but then when I mention to my step dad about using some of the welfare money to get my son zacharys stuff before he's born he gets pist off and tells me to stop worrying about getting zachary stuff that he will have it but what he dont understand is I wanna get it on my own not him get it or my mom ugh that's y i signed up for welfare in the first place Is so I can pay for my kids stuff on my own until my husband gets a job